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So how does this work now?

cookie_queencookie_queen
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If you've had a failed FET when can you cycle again? Do you have to take time off?

I have a phone consult with Dr. Surrey later. I'll ask him that but what are your experiences? What other questions should I ask?

I'm not really functioning but I didn't drown my self in vodka and prescription drugs (just some tequila in the form of margs on Saturday) and somehow I'm still breathing. 

TTC with severe MFI since 9/08 IVF w/ ICSI #1 May/June 2010= BFP twins
Callan George and Bennett Charles born and died 11/7/10
Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
FET #1 April 2011= BFN
FET #2 July 2011= no transfer because my lining sucked
FET #3 February 2012= BFP! 1st beta 9dp5dt=314 2nd beta 11dp5dt=977 1st U/S 3/20 Twins- Heart rates of 111 and 138 Pregnancy Ticker
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Re: So how does this work now?

  • meg_koolemeg_koole
    Oh Cookie!  I have no advice on cycling after FET, but wanted to say I am so sorry that it didn't work.  Glad you didn't drown in vodka, I can definitely relate to that situation. Hang in there.  I am thinking of you and definitely pulling for you!  (((((((BIG HUGS)))))))))
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  • thewormstheworms member

    I don't think you need to take time off.  You should be able to start when you get AF.

    ((HUGS)) cutie.

    I'm so sorry.

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  • Faith722Faith722 member

    I don't have any experience with FETs since we didn't have anything to freeze.  But I just wanted to say I'm sorry you're going through this.  I hope they'll allow you move on soon.

    <<HUGS>>

    IVF #3 = Feb 2012
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  • grazygrazy member

    I got started right away after both failed FET cycles. Even the second one, which was a CP. As soon as I got my period, I got started. It was good for me because I never bleed unless I take Provera, so I got to skip that step.

    I am sending you lots of hugs and luck!?

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  • Temp590840000005378Temp590840000005378

    I have no experience with an FET but wanted to say I'm glad you are still breathing and didn't overdose this weekend Cool

    Hoping your next FET does the trick, how many embies do you have? Or, are you doing a fresh cycle?  Always rooting for you!!

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  • cookie_queencookie_queen
    imagebear:

    I have no experience with an FET but wanted to say I'm glad you are still breathing and didn't overdose this weekend Cool

    Hoping your next FET does the trick, how many embies do you have? Or, are you doing a fresh cycle?  Always rooting for you!!

    We have 7 embryos frozen still. They thaw 2 each FET but we are only transferring one each time so they refreeze the other if it still looks good.

    I can't do another fresh because of how severe my OHSS was last time. 

    TTC with severe MFI since 9/08 IVF w/ ICSI #1 May/June 2010= BFP twins
    Callan George and Bennett Charles born and died 11/7/10
    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    FET #1 April 2011= BFN
    FET #2 July 2011= no transfer because my lining sucked
    FET #3 February 2012= BFP! 1st beta 9dp5dt=314 2nd beta 11dp5dt=977 1st U/S 3/20 Twins- Heart rates of 111 and 138 Pregnancy Ticker
    Living After Losing
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  • Jlynn3Jlynn3

    big big (((hugs)))

    We were allowed to cycle right away if we wanted, but we chose not to.

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    IVF #1 BFN
    FET #1 cancelled for biopsy
    FET #1.2 c/p, July 2012 c/p
    IUI #1 & 1.2 canceled
    IVF #2 ER 12/1, Freeze all due to OHSS
    FET #2.1 cancelled due to DVT risk, FET #2.2 Jan 2013
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  • scooterqscooterq member
    Big ((hugs)) Cookie!!  I'm so sorry!  I hope you can cycle again soon.
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