Step-Monster In-Law needs to just go AWAY!

CrystalJB2003

I'm 7w4d pregnant. (Had a m/c Blighted Ovum this past January.) We haven't made a general announcement to all of the family.. We have just told my parents, and his step-mom & Dad. His freakin' step- mom made the comment. "SO, do you feel different this time?? Do you feel like it's actually going to work out this time??" "Do you feel like your going to have another one?"

 I said Wow. really? I said well I haven't started having blood clots, and bleeding to death so I guess I'm doing just great aren't I. I said you need a filter, and left their house mad. Why are people such assholes?? I figure since everyone is trying to pry details from me about my m/c they can hear all of the nitty gritty details. They all have never had a m/c so they feel the need to pry and pry info about mine. (Not this situation but they've made plenty of other comments to me..) Anyways I just had to get that off of my chest. UGGGhh.

JayandTay09

I am so sorry she upset you...People are stupid...They say, ask and do stupid things...I would like to smack her for you!!!

In.Luv.With.M

I have a step-parent, as does my DH...this situation is EXACTLY why we haven't told anyone yet. People say stupid stuff, and I'm just not ready to deal with it yet...especially after knowing all the "helpful" things that were said after our m/c.