Anyone know the etiquette for baby showers for a 3rd pregnancy? Help!
How much older are the first 2 kids? And the sex?
Generally, I'd say no, but there are circumstances where I think its OK.
In my culture we have a shower for every child. After the first child, the showers aren't as big on presents, but it's more of a celebration of a new life coming. On the invites you can put that gifts are optional if it's the same sex. People don't go to showers w/o presents, so you'll get some little things anyway. You get a lot of it if you have two of one gender already, and all of a sudden you have a different gender coming.
Every child deserves to have baby shower pictures in their baby book to look back on. They should each feel special.
My friend and I are having a shower for #4 but our youngest are 8 and 10 years so we have nothing baby and this is my DH first baby so everyone wants to celebrate.