This may be TMI....

stephers_7

My DH told me today that he's afraid to "do it" because he's afraid he'll hurt the baby. I told him that A) he thinks very highly of himself  and Sex is ok unless your doctor specifically tells you not to do it. 

Are any of your S.O being weird about intimacy now that you are PG? 

nilly5

yes, but it didnt start becoming a problem until I was about 7 months along the last time lol

stephers_7

this is probably just because its our first and we are both so new to this. I told him that it would be ok and to quit being such a baby. I'm sure that turned him on. hahah

ChristinaL27

I told my DH we can still have sex when I'm pregnant...I think he got the hint

 But my doctor told me no sex for now until the spotting has stopped and they give me the okay...

PecanSam

Both DH and I were nervous at first b/c it was so hard for us to get pregnant. But we are feeling more comfortable now and since there hasn't been any spotting we are feeling more and more comfortable about it each time.

Fletcha

Ah yes, the fear of the "battering ram" syndrome.... DH got over that in the first week after we found out, he knew he'd be a fool if he didn't capitalize on my boost in libido! Tell him to just get over it and get going!

KMZ1983

DH has been worried. Mostly because of his...size...and my....size... (sorry, TMI I know).he has caused me to bleed in the past if he penetrated too deep. Since I have spotted on and off he has been a bit paranoid. Now he is SO careful. It's actually really sweet I think.

Mye

thats how dimples come to be, duh! 

Dh is fine with me jumping his bones all the time!

 

lckcdc3

Mye:

thats how dimples come to be, duh! 

Dh is fine with me jumping his bones all the time!

 

Bwahahaaha! I've never heard that one. That's awesome!

domesticatedhuman

Yeah, nothing is happening over here at the moment.  SIGH.  He's crazy, because I am one of the "lucky" ones whose libido has actually increased.  However, I did have some spotting so I think he is just worried.  It's gone now though, I might try to molest him tonight.  :P

LnZ03

I actually have the opposite problem. My DH is super-turned-on by the idea of me pregnant, and I'm the one who could care less. Although, the few times so far we've jumped each other, it has been quite fantastic.

DCWJes

I doubt anything is ever TMI here. Just saying. That being said, we are abstaining, neither of us has tried to jump the other's bones. I think part of this is becuase last time I was pregnant, we did the deed and shortly after, miscarried. My DH is weird and probably won't touch me until we know everything is ok.

JNicMTek

We're both being weird about it this time. I knew I had no interest until we got past the point of the previous loss, but was really surprised when I found out H had the same idea. He hasn't come near me since the BFP. I think we're both too scared to do anything, even if we know it's not really an issue.

Liz10/04

My DH won't leave me alone.  No matter how much I tell him my bb's are sore to the touch he is constantly pawing at them.  It's getting really annoying.  I dont want to rush through this pregnancy, but I'm looking forward to the day the fatigue ebbs.  Maybe I'll be more interested then.

 

peeper72

Not at all. My DH is so relieved that we aren't planning sex around my O date anymore. From my previous experience I think that I am in the minority on this TMI statement, but I think pregnant sex is pretty awesome.