Well I sent DH a text this morning saying we needed our own place. He fully agreed so after work we went out and got ourselves an apartment!
We can move in on the 14th of May.
Its a huge two bedroom for a really nice price!
Only downfall is we'll need pretty much all new furniture/kitchen supplies since ours got lost or thrown out somehow during this process..
But we should have everything by the time DS shows up since its at least 4 months away..its worth it to be rid of my mom.
Now we just need to break the news to her!
Thanks for the extra push ladies I dont feel bad about this choice at all anymore.