My shower is tomorrow and I had to scrap my original idea of birthstone rings as hostess gifts for my mother and step-mother in law due to price issues so now I am going with bottles of wine/favorite adult beverages. I don't really have time to go out tonight to buy them or tomorrow morning before my shower but I would have time afterwards. Would it be bad form to give them the gifts on sunday?
I've never seen gifts given to a host during a shower. I sent a gift/thank you after the shower. If I were you, I would send or deliver the gift with a nice thank you note when you have time after your shower.
Re: when to give hostess gifts