sex, timing and kids...

ateasha

Ok, as you guys know I have two lil ones. Problem is its hard to get any nookie time with my hubby. Now that the pelvic rest is over  I would like to get it on. But lately my dd won't sleep or by the time she does I'm already sleep. I feel so bad! Now's the perfect time before I'm big as a house to really enjoy it too..lol. I was reading on the nest a challege to get it on every night for a week to 30 days...YEAH ok. Anyone with kids having a hard time making special time for your DH?

OH yeah, an if we get a moment away that's the last thing on my mind...  what to do, what to do.

TheMrsRN

Well, it is going to be awhile before you are "as big as a house." I wouldn't worry about it. You will have more energy in the 2nd trimester and sex will probably be more comfortable then anyways. If you have the energy and time, go for it, but if not, don't stress. You have plenty of time.

adri77

I feel you.  I'm home with the kids all day and DH doesn't come home until b/w 8-9, AFTER the kids have been put to bed (and fed, bathed etc) so I'm EXHAUSTED by that time and sometimes asleep.....he knows it's a given there is no M-F sex.  And then weekends......it's just as hard.  Morning sex hasn't happened in 4.5 years, DS1 doesn't nap so we can't do it then, and now that I'm pg, even though he's home on the weekends, I still just have been too tired/nauseous in the evenings (evenings are my worst time).  We have agreed to try to make time this sat. so we will see!!! Poor guy, it's been 6 weeks, and I'm ok with it, but he sure does miss it!!!

ateasha

adri77:

I feel you.  I'm home with the kids all day and DH doesn't come home until b/w 8-9, AFTER the kids have been put to bed (and fed, bathed etc) so I'm EXHAUSTED by that time and sometimes asleep.....he knows it's a given there is no M-F sex.  And then weekends......it's just as hard.  Morning sex hasn't happened in 4.5 years, DS1 doesn't nap so we can't do it then, and now that I'm pg, even though he's home on the weekends, I still just have been too tired/nauseous in the evenings (evenings are my worst time).  We have agreed to try to make time this sat. so we will see!!! Poor guy, it's been 6 weeks, and I'm ok with it, but he sure does miss it!!!

 

i no i feel so bad because most of the time i'm fine. GOOD LUCK!! I'm gonna try tonight get the kids nice and tired so they drop off to sleep fast.

mbaby1980

Have someone sit for you and go on a date! Make them put them to bed, so when you get home, sex is the only plan.

I have a 8 year old and a 4 year old, we tell them to play in their room and let mommy "talk" to daddy.They Our room is on the other side of the house..They have never come in on us and always obey the rule not to bother us...get a lock for your bedroom door just incase, and have at it....my man is satisified. He can have it when ever he wants it, which is about 2 to 3 times  a week, sometimes more!