HI! I know that there are some good ones out there...I have some friends that are great husbands that are cops...I just got a sh!tty one the first time around. I know that they aren't all like that, I think that I'm just a little jaded ya' know...and the reality is too that regardless of how messed up the situation is, they'll all stick together. So, like in my situation, where he was having an affair with another officer our entire marriage, the other officers are still all "Team D"...which sucks that it breeds that lifestyle...the lifestyle that makes it okay. Does that make sense?
Re: ***DandaLion***
Can I butt in a bit? Both my husband and myself are in the field and I haven't ran into the most are this way type of thing. I know amazing men and women that would never do such a thing. It seems a bit unfair to generalize that cops are this way specifically or the job breeds this type of behavior. I personally think affairs and such happen in the private sector just as much as the public sector. Just my two cents.
You just totally made my day with the whole badge bunny thing and the techie-groupie comparison!