coming to terms:

Lucky507

I posted a while back about our situation with our FS and adoption and you guys were beyond helpful.  I feel like I have come full circle in understanding what is best for our little guy.  We finally got the CW to approve therapy for him and his sisters together (he has been going for over a year) and the CW was able to relinquish the rights of his other younger sister so all three will most likely be placed together...which give me peace.  They even think that they have found a perfect family.  The case worker is letting me be as much of a part of the process as I can be and that helps too.  I just want to be able to protect him and I hope that he goes to a wonderful home where both parents love and want him.  

Thank you Hopeful, Floridamom, and Fredalina for sharing your stories with me too.  It just made me feel not so all alone.  We didn't go into foster care to adopt....at least not for right now....and I need to remind myself of that.  We just wanted to help some kids when their lives where turned upside down.  The adoption part was just too much too soon for my DH and I understand that now.  We will continue to foster and when DH is ready then hopefully the right situation will happen. I am just praying that God will help us to find FS's path and lead him in the right direction.....that is the only thing that I can control:)

You ladies are the BESTEST! I love reading all your posts of good news and adoptions.  I truly feel that this is the best board!! Thanks for all your support:)

~C

swanck

I'm glad things are working out for you FS.

Love to you as you help him move forward.   

Floridamom224

I am so glad you have inner peace about it!  I am always hear if you need to chat!!