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Babies: 6 - 9 Months
Generally dislikable people... (NBR Vent)
Now I am a fairly open minded person and I try to get to know people before making an opinion about them... Well yesterday my best friend got to go to a concert with her boyfriend for her birthday. She called into work with plenty of time for them to find her a replacement. Well after posting about it on FB, a "friend"/coworker and then flipped the fvck out at her for going and calling in. I of course defended her and told her it was inappropriate to say what she said on FB and that she could have talked to her privately, in turn she made herself look bad and immature because of her actions. Instead of not saying anything, she attacks me. Saying I use my baby as an excuse not to do things, be lazy, and live off my husband without contributing...
While I wanted to say "obviously that means I am just generally prettier, better, and more fvckable...", I simply stated she was acting like a child.
I don't understand people's desire to bring others down. And not only that.... if you are going to go through the trouble and insult someone, check your spelling and grammar.
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Re: Generally dislikable people... (NBR Vent)
Yeah, I guess so. You know, using my son to get out of stuff, cleaning etc. I really didn't understand.
And that's kind of funny! I don't hear too many people with similar last names.
Wow! I didn't know being a mom was lazy and not contributing. But then again I stay home and "live" off my H.
I know right! We must be pretty hot and great in the sack since the men want to keep us around while being so "lazy". lol
My MIL accused me of being lazy about 2 weeks after bringing K home from the hospital.
What she didn't realize is my H wasn't in the shower yet and was listening to our conversation from the other room. He stormed in and told her to leave.
She emailed me later saying that I was in fact lazy, because: I hadn't cooked dinner the night I came home from the hospital. And I hadn't cleaned my house yet. Or gotten a job to pay for all of the baby things. I asked H to change a diaper when I was perfectly capable of doing it myself.. The email was fairly long. ***.
People make me so mad.
ETA: That person sounds like a gem. I would probably cvnt punt them.
I just don't get some people. Being a SAHM is difficult too. Remy is going through a clingy phase right now where I can only put him down for 5-10 minutes at a time before he flips out. And I have a carrier so while I can get some stuff done while baby-wearing, there is a lot of stuff that is still difficult! I am LUCKY to have the opportunity to be a SAHM, but it's not all easy-peesy.
More then anything I was upset that she so publicly attacked my best friend and made herself look stupid.