That's what MH asked the IVF doctor and u/s tech when we were at 6wks.
The IVF dr and I both replied in unison, "when they turn 18".
HAHAHA So true though! We'll all be worried somewhat throughout our pregnancy, but really the worrying doesn't stop there. So try and take it all in stride and just enjoy the day you've been given, ladies!
Re: "So, when do you stop worrying?"
True, but so hard.
I worried for my first u/s. We saw a heartbeat and I thought I would feel better...I did, for about a day.
Then, another u/s. HB stronger, baby grew.
I thought I would relax once I got pregnant! I try not to think past two weeks out, it's what helps keep me sane.
DS born via unplanned C-section at 40w6d
So true!!! I thought I'd stop worrying when I saw the heartbeat. But now I feel even more worried b/c there's something there and I'm getting more attached to the baby. And I don't think you even ever stop worrying... as my mom says - little kids, little problems, big kids, big problems.
my read shelf:
You stop worrying about your pregnancy when you hold your newborn in your arms.
Then you have a MILLION other worries as parents.
Your Dr. was completely right. At night, anytime my FI or I get up for any reason, we check on our daughter to make sure she is still breathing
I laughed the other day because she was sleeping in our room, and we were coming in to go to bed. I came in first and placed my hand on her back to make sure she was breathing (she sleeps on her stomach now) and checked her face to make sure she wasn't too cold/hot and then I got into bed. FI came in about 2 minutes later and did the same thing.
You never stop worrying about your babies
Endometriosis, s/p lap 2009
Behcet's disease, s/p partial vulvectomy 2010
Started bromocriptine to lower prolactin level 2010
Clear HSG 11/2010
DH morphology = 4, rest of SA looked good 01/2011
02/2011 First Clomid 50mg cycle
BFP 03/02/2011
No heartbeat at 10w5d 04/18/2011; D&C 04/23/2011
07/2011 Second Clomid 50mg cycle, BFN
08/2011 Third Clomid 50mg cycle, BFN
10/2011 First Clomid 100mg cycle with Ovidrel trigger = BFN
11/2011 Second Clomid 100mg cycle with Ovidrel trigger = BFN
12/2011 Third Clomid 100mg cycle with Ovidrel trigger = BFFN
01/2012 Fourth Clomid 100mg cycle with Ovidrel trigger = ?