What is/was your biggest fear?

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What is/was your biggest fear giving birth?

What is/was your biggest fear raising multiples?

123pcb

1. Delivering one vaginally and the other by c-section. I don't want every inch of my body to be in that kind of pain.

2. Nursing issues. Being able to balance between twin infants and my dd who is a typical toddler. Oh, and somehow making sure my house doesn't look like a frat house. Feeling forever tired. Not being able to juggle work and children and marriage. ..i could go on, but I bet others have the same fears.

 

 

JosiePosy

1. I had an emergency c-section, so one of my biggest fears was whether or not DH would make it in time. He did, but barely. After that, I was petrified about the girls' health because they had to be delivered so early. I didn't give a rat's ass about myself at that point.

2.  I worry that I won't be able to spend enough time with them and treat them as individuals instead of a duo all the time.

kellyjg123

Giving Birth-That I will go too early and the babies will be sick and have an extended stay in the NICU.

Raising- I worry about the impact on my older son who is used to being the center of my universe.  I also worry about my own stamina/patience in raising three young children. And I worry about not being able to leave the house. Oh and my marriage too, lol.

MuseumMaven

1.  My biggest fear about giving birth is doing it before my LOs are ready to come out.  I want them to stay put for as long as possible!

2.  I think my biggest fear is keeping track of the needs and care of two - I'm sure I'll be keeping really detailed logs so I can remember who has had what when!