Sex Sex and no Sex...and also some other qs.

momtwins19

Okay so my LO's are 8 months old almost and i still have no libido. i so want to please hubby, but i only ever get in the mood like once a month. if that. and hubby doesnt understand. no matter what i tell him, he thinks it's because i think he's not attractive and that it's because im seeing someone else. but im not!! what do i do?

 

and another qs. how do i prevent biting? i have 2 with 4 teeth and my DS is actually on his way to 6 teeth. DS bites me on the shoulder when i burp him already, i don't want him biting his sister or him biting her. how can i prevent this?

 

 okay one more question for you ladies. I am leaving for a scrap booking retreat with a few of the girls from my extended family and a friend of my SIL. i will be gone for 2 nights and i guess a day and a half. i leave tomorrow at noon and come back sunday at noon. Im really excited to be away from the babies and DH for a while, but im worried that because im not there DH will not do what i do. i trust him with my babies, but he's not used to waking up with them at night. i usually have to wake him up to get up with them bc he's such a hard sleeper. i have full confidence he will figure something out and will take good care of them but im still worried. i wont have cell service so i wont be able to call and i'll miss my babies like crazy, but i really need this. any ideas on how to calm my mind so i might be able to sleep after i leave?

VABride2008

Sex begets sex....the more you do it, the more you'll want it!

No clue about the biting as we have no teeth yet.

And I'm jealous of your scrapbook retreat.  I didn't go on my annual trip this year because I didn't want to be away from LO for 2 nights.  So not much advice, but enjoy! 

momtwins19

thanks for the post though. i was starting to think noone wanted to read all of it.

 

if u find anything on biting let me know.

 

and im sorry you didnt go on your annual trip. that really sucks. im only doing this bc i've been sick for a week taking care of the twins and im exhausted and need the sleep, and i have a bunch of scrap book stuff i got for christmas that i havent even started yet. oh joy. lol. so after this i'll let you know how i did and maybe u can find a night out with the girls or something.

lijah

I have absolutely no libido either. I don't know what to do! I think it has to do with the nursing so I'll see if it returns soon because I just weaned.

forensicmama

I had no libido for years... it took me a while to figure out it was my Mirena IUD. Maybe talk to your doctor about this... it might be your BC.

blondek8

I have no libido either. I'm pretty sure it's the twins and the PPD causing it.

akbrown64

I have to agree that sex begets more sex. The more we did it, the more I wanted to do it. 

 I'm no help on the teeth. DS doesn't have any yet.

 I was worried about this with my husband when I went away, but he surprised me. He said he slept much lighter while I was gone. He thinks that subconsciously he knew he had to wake up and didn't sleep as deep as a result.