Vent: thank you DH for making today so much easier. . .blah

irelandsangel81

So today is my due date and my grandpop's viewing and what is DH doing. . .biting my head off every chance he gets.  He woke up this morning in a foul mood and everything I do seems to be wrong.   I asked him what was wrong and you know what he told me. . .1) he is upset baby isnt here yet. . .ok not much I can do about that 2) he's mad that my grandpop left us money but stipulated that it must be used for the down payment on a house and 3) my mom gave us part of her inheritance from grandpop to use to pay off my car  . . .he thinks the money should have just been given to us to use on bills instead of paying a bill off.    OK so greedy much!  I mean it was so nice of my mom and my grandpop to do that for us and it is making me so mad that he is angry about this and taking it out on me! And 4) he has so much that he has to do today . . like what?  The house is spotless thanks to my nesting and even if he had a lot to do today he has been sitting on the couch since he woke up playing video games.  What makes it so much worse for me is that I'm the only person who gets to enjoy this mood of his.  He has talked to his friends and his parents today on the phone and they get a normal even chipper DH but I get the pissed off version.. . .I don't think so!!!  I did try to talk to him like an adult and got snapped at AGAIN so I'm done.  I'm going to let him have his sulking moment and then when he is done we will be talking about this.  Just because he snaps out of his mood doesnt mean I'm not hurt and pissed about getting the brunt of it today.  OK vent over thanks for listening!

KERJF

I am sorry for the loss of your grandfather.

And DH needs to stop putting all of this on you. It isnt up to him how that money is spent if it was specifically given to you guys for something. He needs to take a step back and be grateful that you are able to pay a car off and now you have a downpayment on a home. 

Hopefully he gets over this quickly for you - you dont need that added stress right now!!

((hugs))

luu11

I know its childish but when my DH starts acting like this i do the exact same thing that way he can see how he is acting and how childish it is...when asked what is wrong i ask him the same thing it seems to work for me anyways he snaps out of the mood and apologizes

rachelhahn23

I am sorry to hear about your grandfather....but I agree that your DH is being VERY greedy, why does he feel so entitled??

irelandsangel81

rachelhahn23:

I am sorry to hear about your grandfather....but I agree that your DH is being VERY greedy, why does he feel so entitled??

I honestly have no idea!  And the money is a good chunk of money so I have no idea why he feels that he is entitled to spend it the way he sees fit.  I thought it was very nice of my grandpop to say he wanted us to have a house so this is what the money is to be used for.  I finally told him that I don't give a damn about the money that I would much rather have my grandpop back and that he needs to stop acting like the money is so important when it's not.