Just need to vent, TIA......
So for a little over a year, I've had major BOTB, but hubby and I have other things in life we'd like to do first. We finished grad school about 4 months ago, we got jobs to prepare for student loans, maybe try to buy a house instead of rent, etc. In the meantime of all this though, three people close to us have had unplanned pregnancies. His sister had a "moment of whimsy" as she called it and was pregnant 5 months into her marriage, one friend and his girlfriend had an unexpected baby, and just today I found out that one of my good friends and bridesmaids just passed her first trimester (btw, last week, her boyfriend proposed to her - what a coincidence).
Does anyone else who plays it "by the book" ever feel a little cheated when moments like this happen? I'm sure all of them love and will provide good lives for their children, but sometimes I really feel like it sucks that I have to put off starting a family when I want one so bad, just to have some of the things that none of those other people do. To put it frankly (and probably offensively, sorry), I feel jipped for being responsible and doing it "right".
Thanks for listening.