My best girlfriend just called me to tell me she was pregnant for the first time. She was freaking out because of my past losses and because another friend of hers had an early loss as well. Apparently, she called her OB and demanded to get in now at 6wks. They won't see her until Apr. 19 at 9wks.
If she posted anonymously on a BMB, I probably would have given her a piece of my mind, but IRL I feel guilty that I've contributed to her worries and stress. I reminded her that MCs are not contagious and that every pregnancy is different. I don't know what else to tell her? She's a day ahead of me so I told her that I was PG too. She then lectured me about being positive! What the hell is wrong with us that we can be positive with other people's pregnancies, but not our own?