During 8 Hours of work, I asked twice if I'm pregnant (had m/c 2 months ago & NO one at work even knew I was pregnant.) Because apparently I was told "I'm Glowing???" Maybe depressed looks like Glowing now? idk. Oh that hurt so bad when people asked if I was pregnant, and I'm not because I want so bad to be pregnant, and have a healthy baby. Then a co-worker decided to bring in her newborn babes (twins) today, and show them off. I just needed to get that off my chest. . .
Oh dear, I am so sorry to hear this. It must be so hard to see those coincidences like that: to feel like the forces at be are setting you up to have a complete breakdown. With our late (infant) loss, we had to be very public about the loss and still I was on facebook for about 45 seconds yesterday when a friend's chat bubble appeared, "So did you pop yet?" Exactly three weeks after eerything has happened.
I hope the healing continues. You are strong even when it doesn't feel like it, and you can get through this.
Having experienced losses, my perspective has totally changed about people being nosey about pregnancies. I think it's so rude when people asked. I've experienced the same thing a few times (worst was the day I returned from my 3 days off for d&e, a worker asked if I was out because my morning sickness was so bad - nobody knew I was pg). I'm sorry this is happening. The timing couldn't be worse. ((hugs))
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2 Corinthians 12:9 But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.
oh big hugs... that is so hard. I always hate when people who have no clue ask when we are going to start having babies....just a big stab the to heart
Married 9/19/09
BFP#1 05/19/10 M/C 6/4/10 d/x threatened m/c 6/6/10 m/c confirmed
BFP#2 10/26/10 M/C 11/01/10
BFP#3 11/28/10 C/P 11/29/10
BFP#4 02/23/11 M/C 3/1/11
BFP#5 08/13/11 EDD 04/27/12 Beta @11DPO 8.79 Beta @13DPO 36 Beta @17DPO 179 Beta @20DPO 679!! 6w3d hb 116 bpm! 8w3d hb 164 bpm! 10w4d hb 177-187 NT scan 12w2d hb 173-everything looks great! 14w4d-everything still looks great! A/S scheduled for 12/12!
Our rainbow baby is here!! Emmalynn Anne born 4/27/12 via unplanned c-section BFP#6 Surprise! Here comes baby #2! Harper Elizabeth born 12/17/13 via c-section
I'm so sorry for your loss. It seems that the universe mocks us with pg women and baby movies songs etc after our losses. I wanted to curl up in my bed for days after I found out we miscarried. We also chose to keep the pg private until the 3 month mark, just incase. And sadly at 5 weeks 2 days I miscarried... and now I am dying inside everytime my friends ask " So when are you going to start making babies? " uhhhh rip my heart out why dont you! But I know its not their fault...they didnt know bc I didnt tell them. Hopefully time will heal my heart
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Oh dear, I am so sorry to hear this. It must be so hard to see those coincidences like that: to feel like the forces at be are setting you up to have a complete breakdown. With our late (infant) loss, we had to be very public about the loss and still I was on facebook for about 45 seconds yesterday when a friend's chat bubble appeared, "So did you pop yet?" Exactly three weeks after eerything has happened.
I hope the healing continues. You are strong even when it doesn't feel like it, and you can get through this.
My heart is as open as the sky.
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2 Corinthians 12:9 But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.
BFP#1 05/19/10 M/C 6/4/10 d/x threatened m/c 6/6/10 m/c confirmed
BFP#2 10/26/10 M/C 11/01/10
BFP#3 11/28/10 C/P 11/29/10
BFP#4 02/23/11 M/C 3/1/11
BFP#5 08/13/11 EDD 04/27/12 Beta @11DPO 8.79 Beta @13DPO 36 Beta @17DPO 179 Beta @20DPO 679!! 6w3d hb 116 bpm! 8w3d hb 164 bpm! 10w4d hb 177-187 NT scan 12w2d hb 173-everything looks great! 14w4d-everything still looks great! A/S scheduled for 12/12!
Our rainbow baby is here!! Emmalynn Anne born 4/27/12 via unplanned c-section
BFP#6 Surprise! Here comes baby #2! Harper Elizabeth born 12/17/13 via c-section