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TTC after 35

Can I join you ladies?

Hi, my name is Missy. I'm 35 (today) and DH is 43. We wanted to wait until DD was 1 b/f we started trying again. Not sure if I'm ready for the emotional roller coaster but here we go again! Not sure of the plan (IUI, IVF etc), but we have difficulities getting and staying pregnant. And then the doctor telling me Friday that I was "advanced materal age" doesn't help either... Thanks buddy. Anyway I've been lurking for a while and decided to say hi.

TTC since 6/2003. m/c 9/14/03 8 weeks, 5 chemical pregnancies, mmc 6/04 12 weeks, Michael born sleeping 5/25/05 at 22weeks always our angel, fought ovarian cancer and won, m/c 4/06 5.2 weeks and 7/07 6.6 weeks,Our Miracle baby girl born 4/8/10,mc 12/18/11 at 5.3 weeks, BFP 10/26/12 dating u/s on 11/8/12 showing a strong heartbeat!EDD July 4,2013. RCS on 6/27. Baby boy in NICU for 8 long and scary days before he was able to come home. We are now a happy family of 4

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Re: Can I join you ladies?

  • Welcome ! and Happy Birthday !  Yes the emotional roller coaster is hard, believe me.  Good Luck to you !
    Lilypie Trying to Conceive Event tickers 5/10/09 Married TTC 4/26/10 1st Apt @ Fertility Clinic 7/4/10 IUI #1 (clomid & ovidrel) 7/16/10 BFP 7/18/10 Ectopic Pregnancy 8/2/10 HSG : Unicornuate Uterus + only left tube is clear 8/13/10 MRI#1 Confirmed right ovary not fully developed 8/24/10 MRI#2 Confirmed 2 kidneys 10/28/10 IUI #2 (clomid & ovidrel) 11/9/10 BFN + AF 11/21/10 IUI #3 (clomid & ovidrel) 12/5/10 BFP 1/5/11 confirmed no heartbeat 1/11/11 D&C 2/21/11 Saline Sonogram - cleared to try again 3/11/11 IUI #4 (clomid & ovidrel) 3/25/11 BFN 4/5/11 IUI # 5 (clomid & ovidrel) 4/20/11 BFN + AF Taking a break.... 5/17/11 trying again... IUI # 6, Clomid day 1
  • Happy Birthday and Welcome to the group!  :)
    Me: 40 Dh: 41, TTC since August 2009, began Acupuncture and Herbs Sept 2011, began Temping and Charting Nov 2011. image
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  • Happy Birthday, and welcome!

     I see your DD is almost 1 - exciting times - are you planning a big party?

  • Happy Birthday!!  And Welcome!!  I see by your siggy that you've been through a lot already.  I hope that you have an easier time this go around. :)
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  • Welcome and Very Happy Birthday!  I hope you have a easier time this round.

     

    IVF#1 May 2011 15 Eggs Retrieved, 11 Fertilized using ICSI + HPT on 6/9/11 Beta #1 420 Beta #2 2167 US 7/1 TWINS!! Due 2/18/2012 Brooke and Nora born at 35.6 weeks Jan 20th 2012
  • Happy Birthday and welcome. Looks like you've been through a lot already. I hope you're able to defy the odds again.
    TTC #1 since June 2010
    Me: 36, DH: 42
    Dx: DOR and MFI

    DH: low count + very low motility; hormones all normal; Sperm DNA Frag. test = poor to fair; male karyotyping normal
    Me: FSH 13.4 + AMH 0.26 + hypothyroidism; Scratch the hypothyrodism (?); Blood clotting and immune panel all negative; endometrial biopsy normal

    IVF #1 (MDLF - Jul/Aug 2011): BFN (9R, 5M, 3F with ICSI, 3dt of 1 10-cell grade 2, no frosties)
    IVF #2 (EP-antagonist - Sep/Oct 2011): BFN (6R, 4M, 3F w/ ICSI, 3dt of 1 6-cell, 1 7-cell, grade 4s, no frosties)
    DE IVF #1 (shared cycle - June 2012): c/p (6R, 6F w/ICSI, 3dt 1 8-cell grade A- and 1 7-cell grade A-; no frosties)
    DE IVF #2 (shared cycle with new donor - Nov/Dec/ 2012): - BFP!!!!! 12/14/12. U/S on 12/27 shows twins!!!!!

    SAIFW/PAIFW
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    Happy Birthday, and welcome!

     I see your DD is almost 1 - exciting times - are you planning a big party?

    Yes big party planned. You try and keep it small...just doesn't work when you are from a big family. I'm hoping the weather warms up, since it's only 25 degrees outside today:(

     

    TTC since 6/2003. m/c 9/14/03 8 weeks, 5 chemical pregnancies, mmc 6/04 12 weeks, Michael born sleeping 5/25/05 at 22weeks always our angel, fought ovarian cancer and won, m/c 4/06 5.2 weeks and 7/07 6.6 weeks,Our Miracle baby girl born 4/8/10,mc 12/18/11 at 5.3 weeks, BFP 10/26/12 dating u/s on 11/8/12 showing a strong heartbeat!EDD July 4,2013. RCS on 6/27. Baby boy in NICU for 8 long and scary days before he was able to come home. We are now a happy family of 4

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  • I am a newbie as well. Welcome and good luck to you!

    TTC #1 since 2/10 Me 38 FSH 12.9 & AMH 0.16 DH 47, low sperm count due to meds. 07/11 We have sperm! 28 million, 70% motility, morphology 1% normal. 08/14/11 1st IUI unmedicated BFN. 09/11/11 2nd IUI w/ Femara + trigger BFN 10/14/11 trigger & Final IUI 10/16/11 BFN 10/21/11 Started acupuncture and loving it! 01/21 ET one embryo 6 cell grade C. Beta 02/02. BFN. Taking a much needed break. image
  • Welcome - I just started posting last week myself.  Hope you have an easier time of things this time around!!
    Me: 41, DH 43 TTC #1 since 8/09 CP 10/09.
    3/11 Clomid-Ovidrel-IUI #1-progesterone= BFN.
    5/11 Femara-Bravelle-Ovidrel-IUI#2-progesterone=BFN.
    6/11 Femara-Ovidrel-IUI#3-progesterone=BFP!
    Beta #1 7/1: 39. Beta #2 7/5: 301 U/S 7/19 - saw HB!!
    EDD 3/12/12
    DD born 3/5/12
    Baby #2 Beta #1 12/16: 439.  Beta #2 12/18: 1240
    EDD 8/22/15


  • Happy Birthday!!Party!!! Welcome to the board and I hope your stay is short. Good luck!
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  • Welcome!  I hope your stay is short but you have found a great place to learn, listen and vent.  This is a great bunch of ladies!
    ~Married 11/08~
    ~TTC since 01/09~
    ~SA & B/W - 06/09 - Normal~
    ~Encouraged by OB to "just keep trying" 06/09 - 06/10 (oh, the wasted time)~
    ~HSG - 08/10 - Clear/Normal~
    ~Lapo - 01/11 - Normal~
    ~Clomid 50mg, Trigger shot, Prometrium - 01/11, 02/11, 03/11~
    ~BFN - 02/11~
    ~IUI #1 03/15/11~
    BFP 3/28/2011
    Diagnosed with GD at 28 weeks. Controlled through diet and exercise. No insulin.
    Diagnosed with Cholestasis of pregnancy @ 36 weeks.
    Delivered via C-section @ 36 weeks on 11/9/11.

    TTC#2 for a few months naturally (ha!)
    ~IUI#1, Clomid, Trigger,  10/13 - BFN
    ~IUI#2, Femera, Ovidrel, 11/13




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  • Welcome and Happy Birthday!  Sounds like you've already been through alot.  Hope that you get your BFP real soon. 
    TTC since 10/09 Me-43 DH-44 RE and testing 10/10-11/10, Recommending IVF 1/11 New RE AMA and DOR-DH low motility IVF #1.1 cancelled 3/11 due to poor response IVF #1.2 May 2011, one perfect 8-cell embryo, 3dt-BFN, IVF #2.1 Converted to IUI d/t poor response. New RE 9/2011. IVF 2.2 completed using HGH,EPP,DHEA, Q-10 and accupuncture. Transferred one 8-cell, grade one embryo on 10/19. BFP 10/31/11 Chemical pregancy on 11/2/11. Started stims for IVF #3, our final try, on 12-2-11. ET on 12/18. Transferred 3 Grade A embryos-BFFN Planning DE IVF, late March/early April- Donors ER expected to be 4/2-4/4. PAIF/SAIF welcome
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