Possibly another set-back :(

JnJ62406

This is a repost from TTTC ( sorry it's monday and I was being lazy about doing another similar post)

Well DH and I are getting ready to start IVF #1, we have been waiting to find time to get into the bank to discuss getting a loan for this.  Well, we went on saturday to discuss things and we may end up having to wait another year before we can do IVF #1!    So disappointed and was hoping that we could start it sooner rather than later.  The reason we may have to wait is due to what the payments would end up being compared to what we would be comfortable paying right now.  Waiting would allow us the chance to work on the house more and pay off some more debt.  DH also takes his PE exam this fall, which if he passes would mean about a $12,000 to $15,000 pay increase.  So with that being said yes, I am super bummed that we may have to wait, but everything happens for a reason so I guess we have no choice but to go with it.  We should hear back from the bank today or tomorrow about final more realistic numbers for payments and such (the bankers computer wasn't cooperating completly when we were there so he could only give us estimates).  Pray that they have figured something out that works for both us and the bank!  Thanks!!

JMay

I'm so sorry you have to wait, but hopefully everything will work out for you. GL!

JnJ62406

JMay:

I'm so sorry you have to wait, but hopefully everything will work out for you. GL!

Thanks JMay!

AmandaMacD

Oh sweetie, I'm so sorry.  I hope everything falls into place sooner rather than later so you can get this show on the road.

choirgirl

I'm so sorry, I hope this gets resolved soon for you! Waiting is so the hardest part.

teresadrew17

JnJ62406:

This is a repost from TTTC ( sorry it's monday and I was being lazy about doing another similar post)

Well DH and I are getting ready to start IVF #1, we have been waiting to find time to get into the bank to discuss getting a loan for this.  Well, we went on saturday to discuss things and we may end up having to wait another year before we can do IVF #1!    So disappointed and was hoping that we could start it sooner rather than later.  The reason we may have to wait is due to what the payments would end up being compared to what we would be comfortable paying right now.  Waiting would allow us the chance to work on the house more and pay off some more debt.  DH also takes his PE exam this fall, which if he passes would mean about a $12,000 to $15,000 pay increase.  So with that being said yes, I am super bummed that we may have to wait, but everything happens for a reason so I guess we have no choice but to go with it.  We should hear back from the bank today or tomorrow about final more realistic numbers for payments and such (the bankers computer wasn't cooperating completly when we were there so he could only give us estimates).  Pray that they have figured something out that works for both us and the bank!  Thanks!!

 

Seriously? I take my PE next week and I doubt I see any pay increase!  So glad y'all have a better market right now than we do!