Cute idea or kind of lame?

PrincessLinLin

So FIL is getting remarried in June and he wants DS and our 3 yr old niece to release butterflies at the wedding. I'm going to let him do it but I just think it seems kind of silly. What do you all think of this idea?

WaterLiIy

I think it's kind of cute.

But I'm a sap.

May08CapeBride

I think it's cute that your FIL came up with it.  Not very often do I hear of men being so involved in wedding planning, and it's thoughtful that he would do something to include the little ones.  So yes, I think it's cute!

MNgirl326

a little sappy, but still cute

prego760

They may have a special meaning behind it?

someflower6

it's been somewhat common with people i know. nms, but not my wedding!

regardless, i think it's a good idea to let your son do it.

PrincessLinLin

May08CapeBride:

I think it's cute that your FIL came up with it.  Not very often do I hear of men being so involved in wedding planning, and it's thoughtful that he would do something to include the little ones.  So yes, I think it's cute!

I'm not sure if he come up with it or his future wife. She's pretty controlling about the wedding. She even said I can't wear flip flops.  

berrybuzz

PrincessLinLin:

May08CapeBride:

I think it's cute that your FIL came up with it.  Not very often do I hear of men being so involved in wedding planning, and it's thoughtful that he would do something to include the little ones.  So yes, I think it's cute!

I'm not sure if he come up with it or his future wife. She's pretty controlling about the wedding. She even said I can't wear flip flops.  

 make sure you bust out your flip flops then.. 

but i think the butterfly idea is cute, they are just trying to include the little ones.

AvidVertigo

I have seen video of a butterfly release at a wedding.  It is really neat.  They are folded into little paper like an accordion. 

PrincessLinLin

AvidVertigo:

I have seen video of a butterfly release at a wedding.  It is really neat.  They are folded into little paper like an accordion. 

Really? I've heard of doves but never butterflies. I'm worried my niece will scream bloody murder as bugs tend to scare her. 

PrimReaper

berrybuzz:

PrincessLinLin:

May08CapeBride:

I think it's cute that your FIL came up with it.  Not very often do I hear of men being so involved in wedding planning, and it's thoughtful that he would do something to include the little ones.  So yes, I think it's cute!

I'm not sure if he come up with it or his future wife. She's pretty controlling about the wedding. She even said I can't wear flip flops.  

 make sure you bust out your flip flops then.. 

But bedazzle them first.  Then they will be wedding appropriate.

sunflowergrl

I was at a wedding once, and they did this.  Everyone in the WP got one, there was one child involved.  Her's was dead.  So when she opened her envelope thingy, it just fell to the ground.  She was pretty sad about it, but her uncle distracted her, and covered it with his foot, pointed to another one, and said no, there it goes, it just got a late start.  so be prepared for anything. 

PrincessLinLin

PrimReaper:

berrybuzz:

PrincessLinLin:

May08CapeBride:

I think it's cute that your FIL came up with it.  Not very often do I hear of men being so involved in wedding planning, and it's thoughtful that he would do something to include the little ones.  So yes, I think it's cute!

I'm not sure if he come up with it or his future wife. She's pretty controlling about the wedding. She even said I can't wear flip flops.  

 make sure you bust out your flip flops then.. 

But bedazzle them first.  Then they will be wedding appropriate.

Should I vajazzle so I'll match my shoes? lol 

AvidVertigo

PrincessLinLin:

PrimReaper:

berrybuzz:

PrincessLinLin:

May08CapeBride:

I think it's cute that your FIL came up with it.  Not very often do I hear of men being so involved in wedding planning, and it's thoughtful that he would do something to include the little ones.  So yes, I think it's cute!

I'm not sure if he come up with it or his future wife. She's pretty controlling about the wedding. She even said I can't wear flip flops.  

 make sure you bust out your flip flops then.. 

But bedazzle them first.  Then they will be wedding appropriate.

Should I vajazzle so I'll match my shoes? lol 

haha, vajazzle.  I don't think anyone will notice, so I say whatever floats your boat!  

If she does scream, it will be very entertaining; right?

berrybuzz

PrincessLinLin:

PrimReaper:

berrybuzz:

PrincessLinLin:

May08CapeBride:

I think it's cute that your FIL came up with it.  Not very often do I hear of men being so involved in wedding planning, and it's thoughtful that he would do something to include the little ones.  So yes, I think it's cute!

I'm not sure if he come up with it or his future wife. She's pretty controlling about the wedding. She even said I can't wear flip flops.  

 make sure you bust out your flip flops then.. 

But bedazzle them first.  Then they will be wedding appropriate.

Should I vajazzle so I'll match my shoes? lol 

 if you choose to, no one will see it so its kinda a lost cause.

PrincessLinLin

AvidVertigo:

PrincessLinLin:

PrimReaper:

berrybuzz:

PrincessLinLin:

May08CapeBride:

I think it's cute that your FIL came up with it.  Not very often do I hear of men being so involved in wedding planning, and it's thoughtful that he would do something to include the little ones.  So yes, I think it's cute!

I'm not sure if he come up with it or his future wife. She's pretty controlling about the wedding. She even said I can't wear flip flops.  

 make sure you bust out your flip flops then.. 

But bedazzle them first.  Then they will be wedding appropriate.

Should I vajazzle so I'll match my shoes? lol 

haha, vajazzle.  I don't think anyone will notice, so I say whatever floats your boat!  

If she does scream, it will be very entertaining; right?

Yea since I'm preggers I can't get drunk so no one will see the vajazzle. I would find it very entertaining if she screams, lol. She is such a frady cat.