Vent.. Dear H ... suck it up.

Jenniferk08

the other day I posted I was in the hospital with kidney stones. I was admitted tuesday, discharged thursday, had a lithotripsy done (blasted the little f-cker to a small size) then ended up back in the ER because the pain meds were useless.  Was put onto some heavy narcotics (10x's the strength of morphone) and was told I was not to do any lifting, which includes MJ.

My mom had Mj the entire time I was in the hospital and my sister came home from college to help me at her house the other day.  Last night i finally went back to my house but told H he needed to help because I'm still in pain and the meds make me dizzy. 

Last night I had to try to wake him 3 times before he'd get up to feed Mj after Mj had already been sleeping for about 5-6hrs.  But rather than get up to feed him, H just gives him the binky which means in 5min he'll be back up crying.  He doesn't change his diaper before or after the feeding because h is just so tired since he's barely had any sleep the past few days..

Then Mj wakes again around 8:30 for his next feeding and again I have to try to wake H.  After this feeding Mj does not like to go back to sleep but H puts him back in the crib where he starts crying. So now I give up with H (who I am extremely pissed off at now) pick up Mj which I'm not suppose to do and bring him to his swing. 

I never really ask H for help but the next few days I have little choice while I heal but of course I'll hear nothing but whining about how tired he is.. oh and the little cramp in his leg.. really H, stop whining about how tired you are taking care of MJ and suck it up.. this is what I do every day.  Be a dad... sorry this was so long.

(on a good note I passed the stone but now have to allow my body to heal)

magdalina.h

I'd punch mh in the balls if he acted like that

mimi1017

magdalina.h:

I'd punch mh in the balls if he acted like that

bahahahahaha totally this!!

thatsmary

Ugh! Sucks.

But on a side note, are you still in pain even though you passed the stones? My pain went away instantly just as the doc told me it would. Feel better soon.

Aviee

Mine does this...why oh why do some H's act like we get as much sleep as them?  I hope he buys you flowers to make up for that.  Get well soon!