Telling people...

TchrJen24

I thought at this point I would be shouting it from the roof tops but I find myself thinking it's just too soon, or early, in case the worst happens. I'm beginning to wonder if I'm ever going to feel ok telling people! I've told family and close friends, but most work people are still in the dark and general friends are too.

Anyone else thinking the same thing? I'm starting to think I won't be comfortable with the world knowing until I'm pushing a stroller!

Verb86

We have also only told a limited number of people close to us. For some reason we are completely comfortable with keeping it to ourselves until it becomes obvious to anyone looking at me. Its a very personal thing to go through and we just don't feel that its necessary to tell everyone we encounter about it yet. Its kind of nice to have something this special kept between only those close to us.

water-fairy

I don't have those fears despite there not being any guarantees but I just don't feel like sharing yet. Family and a couple of close friends know.

bre86ann

Anyone who I haven't told yet is basically going to have to hear it from someone else or figure it out for themselves lol.

JenniferAnnes

We have only told my parents and DH's parents.  After our NT scan next Monday, if all looks well with the baby, we will start telling people. 

gusoff

bre86ann:

Anyone who I haven't told yet is basically going to have to hear it from someone else or figure it out for themselves lol.

Pretty much this

sunflwr2

I feel this way!  When we first found out I wanted to tell everyone!  We ended up just telling our parents and siblings at like 5 weeks.  But now that i'm 13 weeks, I kind of got used to not telling anyone!  I sort of like just flying under the radar.  We've been telling people now though, so the cats out of the bag.  Everyone is super excited for us, but I just don't like the fuss.