Two of my neices were expecting, the 1st was March 31st and 2nd April 1st and the one March 31st had her baby on Friday. He was ony 4 pounds and is doing well. I asked to see some of the babies in there that were 24 weeks as that's my Vday next week and they were so small but beautiful.
I know my LO is really small but they are so perfectly made even at this stage. Sorry if I'm upsetting anyone, I just have so much on my mind after leaving there. The hospital is over and hour away so it took us a while to get there. I couldn't think about anything but my baby all the way home. I think I'm going to hold my stomach a bit tighter tonight.
Re: Just came back from the Nicu for a family member
I know the feeling. I have a local friend who we were going through pregnancy together - she is/was 6 weeks ahead of me with twins. Her twins were born 3 days ago - 27w1d. They're both doing "ok" - Baby A's water broke early so both had to be delivered. Baby A (a girl) is 1lb14oz and her brother is 2lbs3oz. I get sporadic updates, can't go visit because risk of infection. Both seem to be doing ok - long term risks still to be assesed but the boy is on CPAP and the girl, I think, came off intubation yesterday - not sure what the next breathing step for her is. Mom is pumping colostrum and they took few cc's yesterday - all great news. But still VERY scary stuff.
Sometimes I just rub my belly and thank God for miracles.