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Sad milestone

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I would have been 24 weeks today. Oh, how I wish my water could have broken this weekend instead of 3 weeks ago.

But I know that Quincy is in a better place and he never has to hurt or have his heart broken or be anything but radiantly happy.  I just wish I could have had him with me for even a little while. 

I started reading a book on grief last night.  The quote in my siggy really spoke to me.  I hope it does the same for one of you ladies.  

I'm sorry my siggy is all jacked up, though. 

Momma to 2 sweet girls here on earth and a precious baby boy in heaven
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  • Dragonfly1226Dragonfly1226 member

    I'm so sorry hon.

    (((((hugs))))) 

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    (((hugs))) continued thoughts and prayers!
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    the quote is beautiful.   (((HUG)))  
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  • CassianCassian
    I am so sorry that you have to go through this. I love the quote you posted. I still continue to be amazed by the strength and grace you demonstrate in this whole situation. You are in my thoughts often.
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  • MouseygailMouseygail member
    I'm so sorry sweetie :(  the quote is lovely though
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  • Nicole.Nicole.

    I'm so sorry :(

    ((((Hugs)))) to you especially today...

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  • Nicole.Nicole.

    I'm so sorry :(

    Hugs to you especially today...

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  • smileesmilee member
    I am so sorry. :(
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  • dundasgirldundasgirl

    I am so sorry.

    I got a book on grieving after my Mom died.  I really think it helped to give me permission to be sad.  That acceptance helped me move past it.

    Beautiful quote.

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  • kianewkianew
    Huge (((HUGS))).
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  • perry7285perry7285 member
    i'm sorry sweetie. i can't imagine how painful this is. i'm glad you have the peace of knowing that quincy is happy in a better place.
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  • armywife76armywife76 member
    That is a beautiful quote. Hugs to you, honey. I know this must be a very, very hard time.
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  • GuitaristsGirlGuitaristsGirl

    I'm so sorry, honey.

    And, fwiw - I haven't said this yet, but - I understand.  Our twins were born too early to save my life.  I really struggled, and still do, with a lot of guilt.  You have handled this with so much grace - I want to thank you for your beautiful outlook as it has helped mine as well :)

    ((Hugs)) today and going forward. 

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  • vandelayvandelay member
    Thinking of you today.  I'm glad that book is bringing you a bit of peace.
                                  

      
                                   
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  • JillRock96JillRock96 member
    I'm so sorry.  The quote in your siggy is beautiful.  Thinking of you and Quincy.
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