So, the ratio in our house is 3:1 (when only one adult is home, of course). And our living room looked like a day care in the early days, with 3 bouncers, 3 swings, etc. We couldn't have survived without all the equipment to keep babies occupied!
Of course I totally understand everyone worrying about babies being stuck in swings/bouncers all day, but I promise they're going to be ok!
Re: LOLing a little at daycare ratios
They are not in swings/bouncers all day. The DC we are at now only has one bouncer for 12 babies, no swings, no exersaucers. We are going to a different DC in April and I think they only have one exersaucer. I think MH puts the boys in exersaucers a lot more on weekends when he's on duty!
I had a LOT of reservations sending my boys to DC - but I'm a total convert. I think the key point to realize it's not a 1:4 ratio, it's a 3:12 (or whatever multiples of) ratio. So if caregiver A has 2 crying babies while caregiver B has 3 napping babies, caregiver B usually crosses over and gives caregiver A a hand. It's a team effort there.
I love love love our DCP.... we just can't stay there forever.
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I understand. I felt that way when hiring a babysitter.
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