poor DH

B&R+A=love

Last night my husband and I were talking and he said " I just wanted to let you know that we haven't had sex in two and half weeks." I didn't even realize it had been that long! Anybody else still not in the mood?

SarahRuthG

I am totally not in the mood at all! H has been really good about it but I know it is starting to drive him insane. I need to just deal with it and try for his sake. But between not being in the mood and being ready to sleep for the night at 8 pm it's really tough.

amyegunnip

We are in the same boat! My poor husband to be...we are getting married in 18 days and I don't even feel like being touched...just too tired/sore/etc. to even THINK about it

Uwannalala

I was just about to write something about this LOL.  Honestly, im not in the mood one bit.  I feel bad, so I try to just do it for my husbands sake- is that really bad? haha.

 How bad is it that today im like "ugh, I should probably have sex with him tonight"

mama livingston

I've just started sucking it up, but I'm very open with telling him that he needs to be quick. I already feel like a terrible wife with not having any energy or being able to help clean up or anything like that and always being sick, I figure the least I can do is lay there. I think I'm going to have him read this post though (b/c I've been pretty good with making sure we're having sex at least once a week) and maybe then I'll get off my back a little about it. I already feel bad enough and I'm doing the best I can do....

MorgansMommy1

B&R+A=love:

Last night my husband and I were talking and he said " I just wanted to let you know that we haven't had sex in two and half weeks." I didn't even realize it had been that long! Anybody else still not in the mood?

 

Don't feel bad, when you hit a month, than you can feel bad. 

amdraza

I'm depriving my DH too. Just yesterday he told me that "it is not natural to never want sex", and I actually got mad at him for not understanding what I am going through. I feel bad, but between working all day, going to  school in the evenings, and trying to keep up with housework. Whenever I get a moment to breath I just want to relax.

I have been trying to pleasure him once in a while, but I haven't felt like being touched myself, so we haven't been having sex. I'm going to have to give in soon though, because I have been having steamy dreams every night, which I think means that I need to get some. lol.

Themetastic

MorgansMommy1:

B&R+A=love:

Last night my husband and I were talking and he said " I just wanted to let you know that we haven't had sex in two and half weeks." I didn't even realize it had been that long! Anybody else still not in the mood?

 

Don't feel bad, when you hit a month, than you can feel bad. 

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I can't believe he said that to you! 

Themetastic

I am slowly getting there.  he knows to just let me initiate it now though so I don't get pissed off.

whispergrrl

Not only don't I feel like it...but I've had bleeding episodes a couple times a week this entire pregnancy....so any "action" kinda freaks me out thinking I'm going to bleed more. And it freaks him out too.

I did give in the other day, though....even initiated it. And of course, later that day I started bleeding again. Needless to say, we are entering another dry spell! 

rguinn75

I would be sort of annoyed if my DH pointed it out... I know exactly how long its been because I have been put on pelvic rest till we are 20 weeks (from week 10)... My DH has been great about it but it still puts a kink on our intimacy level.. In our case you do whats best for the LO... and personally if you don't feel like being touched then obviously its not going to be any good!

aggiej15

I have the opposite problem! Well, not exactly... I wouldn't say I really want it, but DH has stopped initiating (which is so unlike him).  I rarely initiate these days because it I just don't want it THAT much, but I have been trying to hint to him on days that I am up for it... and nothing.  Before getting pregnant he thought that twice a week was not enough.  Now, on top of not feeling attractive because of acne and belly bloat, I feel even less desirable because DH doesn't want it anymore

megd06

not me. H told me just the other night that he "appreciated my new-found interest in sex"...when I'm pregnant my libido apparently goes up--we've been having sex every 2-3 days.

B&R+A=love

I wasn't annoyed that he pointed out how long it had been he said it more matter of fact that trying to guilt me into it. He was so excited for me to get pregnant this time because with DS my sex drive was through the roof needless to say he is a little bummed this time around.

Leah678

It hasn't been quite two weeks for us yet. I am JUST now starting to get interested in it again. Everytime we've done it since my BFP, it's been like a pity screw. Hopefully things will pick up for me now, and all of us for that matter.