OMG... My daughters grandmother (her Dads mom) is saying that she is looking into grandparents rights so she can get visitations with A. She hasn't called A at our house in over 4 months because I told her she couldn't have A for one assigned day each month (ex: the 15th of each month). She used to ask for A all the time and it got to the point where she was taking advantage and I had to start saying no. I've been open to her calling and spending time with A but not ALL THE TIME.
She also said that she has noticed a change in A in the last couple of months, that A has become meek and afraid of adults. She said that she wonders what's going on at our house and why she is acting this way now, pretty much saying that she thinks A is being abused.
I spoke to A's Dad and explained that we've noticed the change in her too and are doing our best to support her but that she might just be going through something that even she isn't sure about. He said he is going to talk to his mom but who knows what's going to happen.
I am so scared, I don't want her to take me to court and try to paint a bad picture of me when I've only been trying to protect my daughter. I'm also concerned that she is going to suck A's Dad into this whole ordeal, trying to get him to take me to court for more custody. She is manipulative and will step on anyone to get her way. I know she has nothing to use against me but I still can't help but be upset.