Success after IF

I am a bad wife

My husband told me he wants to do it... and I told him no.  I never like doing it this late at night because I just want to be asleep.  I suggested doing it in the morning, but he said he needs to work.  

I hate that I have no libido and I would rather do ANYTHING other than have s e x with my husband. 

Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml

Re: I am a bad wife

  • Don't feel too bad :(  I feel the same way ALL THE time.   I have no idea how many times dh gets turned down.  I've never had much sex drive and its actually very unpleasant for me for a couple different reasons....so yeah :(  i do feel bad for thim though
    1 chemical and 1 loss at 9 weeks prior to DS
    IVF #1 1/10-transfered 2 blasts- DS born 10/2010

    Trying for # 2 since 2012.  2 failed FETS 1 failed IUI.
    IUI#2 4/14/14-- BFP !!!!! Beta #1 14dpiui= 45 Beta #2 16dpiui= 80  Beta #3 18dpiui= 88 (chemical pregnancy)
    March 2015- Chemical pg

    1/25/16- BFP  Beta1 12dpo = 17, Beta 2 14 dpo = 28.. resulted in one beautiful boy born 9/21/16 :)

    Now I'm a stay at home loving life and pursuing my love of photography!!!
  • Loading the player...
  • Same here - ugh we are old married couples? Can he think of anything/ do anything to get you in the mood?
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Just make a deal that if you do it before bed, you get to be on bottom. Its like you're already laying down for bed, just waiting a few extra minutes.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • imageCassian:
    Just make a deal that if you do it before bed, you get to be on bottom. Its like you're already laying down for bed, just waiting a few extra minutes.

    OMG.  ROFLMAO. 

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • imageCassian:
    Just make a deal that if you do it before bed, you get to be on bottom. Its like you're already laying down for bed, just waiting a few extra minutes.

    Thanks!  Yes, this made me laugh, too!

    We didn't do it... maybe tonight. 

    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I hear you...I'm having a really hard time finding the urge at all..and then, when we do, it hurts :(  its a no win
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"