My V-day post earlier

KelsoXOXO

I just wanna say I'm sincerely sorry for offending so many people and I didn't mean to seem nutty for posting that even though I went through something along those lines. I wasn't even thinking about domestic violence when I posted it, I was trying to be funny (like I always am) and post something that said "Take me back" because I left for the weekend. That's all. I'm so very very sorry to those who have been in critical abusive situations. I did not mean to bring up bad memories.

Please take this apology from my heart. I never want to offend or hurt anyone here because I've truely made friends here and there are some amazing women in this community. Anytime I post I want to make someone laugh or at least smile because that's what I love to do. I hate being disliked and looked down on. It feels awful. I promise I'm a good person with good intentions. I regret posting what I did in August and I shouldn't have brought that kind of drama to the boards, especially since everything worked out. It was TMI and unnecessary and I'm sorry.

I also want to apologize to all the women who feel angry towards me for not doing what they advised. I did what I felt was right for us, we went to counseling, he went to AA and Celebrate Recovery, and things have been better than I could ever imagine. I made the decisions to move forward for ME and I didn't do that to hurt any of you. I'm sorry that I did. Please don't worry about me anymore - I promise you we're all safe and a happy, healthy family. I appreciate how much you put into your concerns that day in August, I really do, and I'm sorry it seems like I don't. I've just been hurt and tired of being ridiculed and hated on since then.

So I know you will feel the way you want about me, but I wanted to extend my sincere apology.

emilysmommy2010

That was very nice Kelso. I am glad you are happy.

kaylakaylakayla

Kelso, you know I love you, find you hilarious, and think the drama you bring is marvelous

But I think you just need to let it go now, you've said what you need to say (whether it be with your capslock and cussing in the past, or with your sincere apology here) and people are going to continue to bring up old posts because it's funny - but YOU at least, can move on.

People are going to hate who they're going to hate, and they're going to like who they like. You needn't be concerned with people you don't know - you don't have to make everyone like you and think you're funny. People like to get a reaction, and it's what you continue to give.

You sound like a very kind (albeit, crazy) person with a loving family; just leave it at that and enjoy your life outside the internetz

ames71

I think that you would save yourself a lot of grief if you thought things through before posting. When you make good decisions you don't have to explain yourself so often. 

KelsoXOXO

ames17:

I think that you would save yourself a lot of grief if you thought things through before posting. When you make good decisions you don't have to explain yourself so often. 

I realize that. I'm gonna use my brain from now on and I'm sorry that I haven't been.

D_Nett86

Love ya Kelso! I think this is a great post. Hopefully everyone sees this one too.