are there any other carries that don't have baby spread their legs apart or have pressure (from being up against my stomach/back) on their groin? Casey's surgery is in two weeks and he can't have any pressure put upon his penis for the 2 weeks after surgery, including any type of straddle toy (jumper, exersaucer, bike (not that he uses a bike), etc). I know i can carry him cradle style in my sling and wrap, but thinking even froggy style in my mei tais will be out. Any other suggestions or ideas?