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I read the "drama" from last nite

And I wrote "nite" on purpose ;-)

I am sad I missed it!  I would have liked to have a convo with some "new" feisty people from another board.  If they only knew the hell that is many of our lives, then they would see that we need...no we REQUIRE...dull and stupid and immature comments and discussions.  It keeps us sane :-)

And how did they not think that skippin' along period free is not odd.  Did I miss something?  I mean, I breastfed for 2 1/2 years...is that what she is trying to say?  But I wasn't period-free for most of that.  Is she on the BCP that skips a period (if so, than I can't stand her for "needing" BC).  Fun times! 

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Re: I read the "drama" from last nite

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  • imagesmilee:
    what happened?

    See the post below- about a ticker :-)

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  • LOL what I think is funny that NONE of us posting on that thread saying anything about the ticker. Got some lurkers, maybe Davez has a stalker!
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  • I read through it too and thought, "whoa, how did these folks end up over here?"
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  • nochit, now who's bored and looking to stir the turd? at least we stay in our own hizzay, lol.

    ::::rolls eyes::::::

    To the ticker lady, That was NOT nice of me to say your kid looked like Kermit. My apologies. (however, your original sig pik you had up for critque on a public msg board (HELLO, YOU WERE ASKING IF THE COLOR WAS OFF!!) was quite green in it's tonal nature.)

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  • I'm sorry for what you ladies have gone through but how does that make it ok to talk about another persons child? THAT'S what was messed up. No just classless. Well done, glad you had fun.
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  • imageanabell0920:
    I'm sorry for what you ladies have gone through but how does that make it ok to talk about another persons child? THAT'S what was messed up. No just classless. Well done, glad you had fun.

     

    So answer us this why did you come over here? NONE of us posted on that thread so you had to be lurking here!

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  • imagebrowneyedgrl4282:

    imageanabell0920:
    I'm sorry for what you ladies have gone through but how does that make it ok to talk about another persons child? THAT'S what was messed up. No just classless. Well done, glad you had fun.

     

    So answer us this why did you come over here? NONE of us posted on that thread so you had to be lurking here!

    Its called this snazzy thing called linking. You know how someone linked the OP's post over here. Well someone did it from here to an age board. Neat huh? .
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  • imageanabell0920:
    imagebrowneyedgrl4282:

    imageanabell0920:
    I'm sorry for what you ladies have gone through but how does that make it ok to talk about another persons child? THAT'S what was messed up. No just classless. Well done, glad you had fun.

     

    So answer us this why did you come over here? NONE of us posted on that thread so you had to be lurking here!

    Its called this snazzy thing called linking. You know how someone linked the OP's post over here. Well someone did it from here to an age board. Neat huh? .

    NO freaking Chit smarta$$ that isn't what I asked, I asked WHY you were over here. You would only know that some one posted that thread if you were over here lurking! 

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  • They are from 6-9 and 9-12. They knew about it because someone who used to post here brought it to her attention.

    All kinds of crazy stuff goes on over there, it's been an interesting 9 months.

     


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  • Honestly someone made a comment about OP's kid which I am sure if it had happened to one of your regulars on our board you all would come to their defense as well. There are some train wrecks on the age boards but we generally try to stay away from that. With that I'm off my little one just woke up.
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  • imagekimberic:

     

    All kinds of crazy stuff goes on over there, it's been an interesting 9 months.


     

    Meh, it's not easy being green.

     

    LOL... too soon? too raw?  Your honor, I'd let the record to state I was NOT referencing ANYONE but myself.  het het.

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  • imageDavezWife:
    imagekimberic:

     

    All kinds of crazy stuff goes on over there, it's been an interesting 9 months.


     

    Meh, it's not easy being green.

     

    LOL... too soon? too raw?  Your honor, I'd let the record to state I was NOT referencing ANYONE but myself.  het het.

     

    OMG LMFAO. Davez have told you recently that I love you!

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  • imagekimberic:

    They are from 6-9 and 9-12. They knew about it because someone who used to post here brought it to her attention.

    All kinds of crazy stuff goes on over there, it's been an interesting 9 months.


     

     LOL this is why I stayed away from that board when my kid was that age but than again 12-24 has some interesting CRAP!

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  • I missed it too!  I seem to always miss the drama.  I went back and read it, and saw the weird ticker!  What an odd thing to be happy about. I wish there was an app for us to install on others so they understood the hell we go through.
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  • imageanabell0920:
    I'm sorry for what you ladies have gone through but how does that make it ok to talk about another persons child? THAT'S what was messed up. No just classless. Well done, glad you had fun.

    If you would have taken the time to read what was said correctly, you would see the the OP was asking if the color in her pic was off. Davez was commenting on the color being green, not being offensive to the lady's kid.

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  • imageCassian:

    imageanabell0920:
    I'm sorry for what you ladies have gone through but how does that make it ok to talk about another persons child? THAT'S what was messed up. No just classless. Well done, glad you had fun.

    If you would have taken the time to read what was said correctly, you would see the the OP was asking if the color in her pic was off. Davez was commenting on the color being green, not being offensive to the lady's kid.

     

    That is exactly it, they didn't read it correctly! Than they come here an attack us!

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  • imagebrowneyedgrl4282:
    imageCassian:

    imageanabell0920:
    I'm sorry for what you ladies have gone through but how does that make it ok to talk about another persons child? THAT'S what was messed up. No just classless. Well done, glad you had fun.

    If you would have taken the time to read what was said correctly, you would see the the OP was asking if the color in her pic was off. Davez was commenting on the color being green, not being offensive to the lady's kid.

     

    That is exactly it, they didn't read it correctly! Than they come here an attack us!

    This. and they called me bbaaaaadd nnaaammmeeeees. Whhhhaaaaaa! (say it like Snookie, it's more fun)  She changed her sig pik, but before that she was asking (IN A PUBLIC FORUM) if the pik she had up was too green (it was) and others agreed.  I'm not picking on the kid, I simply pointed out the oddity of her ticker. That secret inside joke hilarious to others but not to us ticker.

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  • imageDavezWife:
    imagebrowneyedgrl4282:
    imageCassian:

    imageanabell0920:
    I'm sorry for what you ladies have gone through but how does that make it ok to talk about another persons child? THAT'S what was messed up. No just classless. Well done, glad you had fun.

    If you would have taken the time to read what was said correctly, you would see the the OP was asking if the color in her pic was off. Davez was commenting on the color being green, not being offensive to the lady's kid.

     

    That is exactly it, they didn't read it correctly! Than they come here an attack us!

    This. and they called me bbaaaaadd nnaaammmeeeees. Whhhhaaaaaa! (say it like Snookie, it's more fun)  She changed her sig pik, but before that she was asking (IN A PUBLIC FORUM) if the pik she had up was too green (it was) and others agreed.  I'm not picking on the kid, I simply pointed out the oddity of her ticker. That secret inside joke hilarious to others but not to us ticker.

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  • imagearmywife76:
    What drama?

     

    non SAIFers came on saying that we were making fun of someones kid when infact it was the GREEN backround and ticker.

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  • imagebrowneyedgrl4282:

    imagearmywife76:
    What drama?

     

    non SAIFers came on saying that we were making fun of someones kid when infact it was the GREEN backround and ticker.

    Just wanted to AW my new ticker in honor of Cassian ;)

  • imageDavezWife:
    imagebrowneyedgrl4282:
    imageCassian:

    imageanabell0920:
    I'm sorry for what you ladies have gone through but how does that make it ok to talk about another persons child? THAT'S what was messed up. No just classless. Well done, glad you had fun.

    If you would have taken the time to read what was said correctly, you would see the the OP was asking if the color in her pic was off. Davez was commenting on the color being green, not being offensive to the lady's kid.

     

    That is exactly it, they didn't read it correctly! Than they come here an attack us!

    This. and they called me bbaaaaadd nnaaammmeeeees. Whhhhaaaaaa! (say it like Snookie, it's more fun)  She changed her sig pik, but before that she was asking (IN A PUBLIC FORUM) if the pik she had up was too green (it was) and others agreed.  I'm not picking on the kid, I simply pointed out the oddity of her ticker. That secret inside joke hilarious to others but not to us ticker.

    Davezwife - I asked for help with the color of my siggy, because I knew it was green.  I'd tried several times to fix it, and no matter what I did it kept looking green.  So I posted on the Photography board (which I haven't been on for months since joining SPN), asking the usually-helpful ladies to help me with the color.  I was asking for constructive criticism by someone with a calibrated monitor - I wasn't asking someone to make fun of me or my child.

    I don't care if you and your friends want to make fun of my ticker.  I didn't put it in my siggy for you, so if you don't "get it" and you want to tease me, by all means go for it.  But leave my daughter out of it.  You know you were wrong to suggest that you and your friends "take turns telling her that her pik makes her kid look like kermit."   You said yourself that it was wrong of you to say it, and I accept your apology.   I get that this is a public message board and anyone can post whatever they want, but as a fellow mother I would've expected you to know better than to say something like that.  I guess I overestimated you.  My bad.

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  • Oh FFS, just go back to your board. Who really cares. Is your kid green? NO. So why the hell are you taking the comment to heart enough to continue to come back? She apologized already, what else would you like? Her to lick your frikken toe?
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  • imagemopsie:
    imageDavezWife:
    imagebrowneyedgrl4282:
    imageCassian:

    imageanabell0920:
    I'm sorry for what you ladies have gone through but how does that make it ok to talk about another persons child? THAT'S what was messed up. No just classless. Well done, glad you had fun.

    If you would have taken the time to read what was said correctly, you would see the the OP was asking if the color in her pic was off. Davez was commenting on the color being green, not being offensive to the lady's kid.

    That is exactly it, they didn't read it correctly! Than they come here an attack us!

    This. and they called me bbaaaaadd nnaaammmeeeees. Whhhhaaaaaa! (say it like Snookie, it's more fun)  She changed her sig pik, but before that she was asking (IN A PUBLIC FORUM) if the pik she had up was too green (it was) and others agreed.  I'm not picking on the kid, I simply pointed out the oddity of her ticker. That secret inside joke hilarious to others but not to us ticker.

    Davezwife - I asked for help with the color of my siggy, because I knew it was green.  I'd tried several times to fix it, and no matter what I did it kept looking green.  So I posted on the Photography board (which I haven't been on for months since joining SPN), asking the usually-helpful ladies to help me with the color.  I was asking for constructive criticism by someone with a calibrated monitor - I wasn't asking someone to make fun of me or my child.

    I don't care if you and your friends want to make fun of my ticker.  I didn't put it in my siggy for you, so if you don't "get it" and you want to tease me, by all means go for it.  But leave my daughter out of it.  You know you were wrong to suggest that you and your friends "take turns telling her that her pik makes her kid look like kermit."   You said yourself that it was wrong of you to say it, and I accept your apology.   I get that this is a public message board and anyone can post whatever they want, but as a fellow mother I would've expected you to know better than to say something like that.  I guess I overestimated you.  My bad.

    I saw you posted and just about had a seizure from rolling my eyes...(this has been the longest banter about NOTHING)  but I'm glad I took the time to read to the end..

    OMG! That siggy is FA-RICKEN HILARIOUS!!!  nicely played, Green Mommy. Nicely played. :::::raises Mopsie's hand in victory:::: (or the minion that made the siggy for her)

     

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  • ps - I take it back. grow up. enough of the whining and seeking validation. christmas on a cracker, your boohoo-they're-being-mean-to-me stuff is setting a bad example for your daughter. (re:  I just saw your latest post, which I'm staying out of)
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    ps - I take it back. grow up. enough of the whining and seeking validation. christmas on a cracker, your boohoo-they're-being-mean-to-me stuff is setting a bad example for your daughter. (re:  I just saw your latest post, which I'm staying out of)

    I'm Jewish, so I don't understand what "Christmas on a Cracker" means. And my DD doesn't know how to read yet (she's not even 8 months old), so I don't think I'm setting a bad example when she has no idea what's going on.  But I think the example you're setting for your DD, suggesting that people pick on others and tease them, is just great! 

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  • imageDavezWife:
    ps - I take it back. grow up. enough of the whining and seeking validation. christmas on a cracker, your boohoo-they're-being-mean-to-me stuff is setting a bad example for your daughter. (re:  I just saw your latest post, which I'm staying out of)

     

    I said something only because they brought MY name into it

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  • Oh my God.  You obviously aren't bothered at ALL by someone saying "that pik makes your kid look like kermit" as you now have a giant green pic of your baby in your siggy.  Dressed ... as kermit.  And that's great.  And it's funny.  And it's tongue in cheek.  But if you were truly so OUTRAGED by someone saying "that pik makes your kid look like kermit" (NOT SAYING in any way that your KID ACTUALLY LOOKS LIKE KERMIT - it was clearly attributed to the green tone of the photo) - but again - if you're so OUTRAGED that someone MADE FUN OF YOUR BABY (which, no one did, they made fun of your inability to tone a photo, ooohhhh -- BURN - jeezus) - well - then you don't get to put a big tongue in cheek green photo in your siggy.  You can't have it both ways.  You're not outraged.  And if you were, you'd be an idiot. 

    (Pay attention - I am NOT calling you an idiot.  I am saying - I believe you're NOT an idiot.  Because I can clearly tell that you're NOT outraged.)

    And this has become one of the lamer weekend dramas I've ever participated in - out of sheer boredom.  Someone go dredge up something good for when I'm back on later. 

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  • OMG, I need to be done with this topic....  go home.

    Let's recap:

    You to the universe: does my photo look an odd color?

    photopeeps back: yes, it looks green.

    Us, here, in OUR home: hey guys, odd ticker.

    You, in 1000 places: OMG! THEY ARE SO MEAN! OMG! DO YOU LOVE ME?

    Your tadpoles, back in OUR home:  DW et al,  you are biches/assholes/mean bad persons for saying her kid looks like Kermit.  You're all going to hell, her ticker is funny.

    You: All this attention gives me a great idea - I'll photoshop my kid to look like Kermit, and it'll be funny. Rounds of High fives, and scene.

    Seriously? Enough.   

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  • Ah, LucyPee, the voice of reason, and the one who brings sexy back. Glad you could make it. lol. 
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  • Hee Hee!  I leave the computer for the afternoon and I see more drama! 

    I love the kermit pic!  I think it's cute!

    This at least made me smile as I faced my first full day of knowing that this latest IVF cycle did NOT work.

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  • imageLucyPevensie:

    Oh my God.  You obviously aren't bothered at ALL by someone saying "that pik makes your kid look like kermit" as you now have a giant green pic of your baby in your siggy.  Dressed ... as kermit.  And that's great.  And it's funny.  And it's tongue in cheek.  But if you were truly so OUTRAGED by someone saying "that pik makes your kid look like kermit" (NOT SAYING in any way that your KID ACTUALLY LOOKS LIKE KERMIT - it was clearly attributed to the green tone of the photo) - but again - if you're so OUTRAGED that someone MADE FUN OF YOUR BABY (which, no one did, they made fun of your inability to tone a photo, ooohhhh -- BURN - jeezus) - well - then you don't get to put a big tongue in cheek green photo in your siggy.  You can't have it both ways.  You're not outraged.  And if you were, you'd be an idiot. 

    (Pay attention - I am NOT calling you an idiot.  I am saying - I believe you're NOT an idiot.  Because I can clearly tell that you're NOT outraged.)

    And this has become one of the lamer weekend dramas I've ever participated in - out of sheer boredom.  Someone go dredge up something good for when I'm back on later. 

    I think any mother would initially be offended by someone saying that a picture makes their kid look like kermit.  I get what she was saying, but her wording sucked.  So yes - at first I was hurt by everyone's posts and threats to stalk me.  I got over it within 2 minutes,  after I got a chance to vent to my friends on my own board, and I wasn't trying to beat a dead horse with my posts a few minutes ago (but apparently I did).  So yeah - my kermit siggy was tongue in cheek.  I want to move past it, and I thought that would help.  Kumbaya, anyone?

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  • Just pointing it out, but her sig DOES beg you to 'stalk her'.
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