This past weekend was the 8th annual "Cabin Fever" weekend that we do with our college friends every year. There is a group of 14 of us who go up to the mountains, rent a cabin, and just chill out, drink, eat, and play games. It is my favorite weekend of the year and I was really worried that we wouldn't be able to participate since we would have a new baby.
Well, from the day she was born, I have been pumping to build up my stash for this weekend. DH's folks were thrilled to be able to keep her, I was SO mentally ready for it, but DH was initially not, he didn't want to leave her. I finally had a heart-to-heart with him about how I *needed* this time away. That I had been responsible for another human being for over a year and I needed a weekend where I could eat whatever I want, drink whatever I want, sleep as long as I want, be irresponsible, etc. He finally agreed and we went - it was SO GREAT!!!!
Not gonna lie, when we had to leave her at her grandparents, I had a moment of total sadness to leave her. But once we got on the road we were fine. And while we missed her, it was exactly what we both needed. DH slept until 2 in the afternoon on Saturday!
Anyway, it was wonderful and I would definitely recommend to anyone who is thinking about getting away but worried about leaving their LO to give it a try, it's not nearly as bad as you anticipate!