TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

How loss has irrevocably changed my perspective.

I was shopping today at a thrift store.  Towards the middle of the store I ran up on a "triplet stroller" and kept on walking because baby stuff still gets to me sometimes.  After browsing, I made my way to the cashier.  That's when I saw the sign. "Peg Perego Stroller-Brand New 229.99"  I was thinking to myself, why would anyone donate an expensive stroller like that to the thrift store brand new?  Then it hit me....someone lost at least one of their triplets and couldn't deal with trying to return or sell the stroller.  I fought tears all the way home.  I know I'm jumping to conclusions without aclue to what really happened but I "know" without knowing that this is what happened.
dd(Brianna) 11/01/94, ds(Bram)10/17/95, ds(Jesse)9/26/97, dd (Annie Ruth) 7/27/05 5mc Jan '08, May '08, Feb '09, Sept '09, Apr '11 "And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one weak creature makes a void in any heart, so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of vast eternity can fill it up." - Charles Dickens

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Re: How loss has irrevocably changed my perspective.

  • That's so sad Sad I would assume the same thing.
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  • So sad :-(

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  • That's what I would have thought too. It's sad that anyone thinks like that, it's even worse that it happens.
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