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Dirty deeds.....So when do you?

calibride2005calibride2005 member
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An interesting subject came up earlier about BD.....when do you do the deed?  Morning or night?

My DH and I are AM people.....for some reason, we just cant seem to get it together in the evenings.

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  • Rawr08Rawr08
    Most of the time pm is better.  We have to get up so early for work (me-12:50am DH-3:50am) there is no time for BD!
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  • tiffany119tiffany119 member
    AM is a rare occasion. DH is SO not a morning person..and morning breath is not pretty on anyone. Stick out tongue
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  • cfloccocflocco

    DH and I are PM people on weeknights.  But, on the weekend, we are AM people since we get to sleep in past 5am!!

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  • OatoaOatoa member
    Def PM.  DH is such a bad morning person its not even worth trying.  I sometimes get an afternoon treat but that's only when he's feeling randy.

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  • PachitaPachita member
    PM seems to work better for us.  We're focused on getting ready for work in the AM so BD is highly unlikely during that time...unless its the weekend :)

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  • iggy.diggy.d member
    Definitely PM on weeknights. I love sleeping. Weekends are usually AM after a nice sleep in!
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  • shanna82shanna82 member
    During FWP time, it was usually in the evening.  But lately it's been in the am because it's when I have energy :)
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  • cutebride73cutebride73 member

    Sometimes in the morning on the weekends, but during the week definately at night - I get up an hour and 1/2 before DH in the morning and so that is not an ideal sexy time. 

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  • Izabella22Izabella22 member
    Pm on weekdays, on weekends anytime after breakfast is fair game. :)
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  • SheLovesMrHipSheLovesMrHip member
    Pretty routine for us after shower before bedtime....LOL!!!Weekends vary depending on what we are doing that day. During the week is ever changing depending if Im on though.
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  • GaberinosGaberinos
    We are evening people. Sometimes when we get off work early we might have some fun in the afternoon, but rarely mornings.
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  • TapatioTapatio
    During the week, nookie time is in the evening because we both get up at 5am. On the weekends we usually end up doing the deed in the am or early afternoon.
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  • tew213tew213 member

    imagePachita:
    PM seems to work better for us.  We're focused on getting ready for work in the AM so BD is highly unlikely during that time...unless its the weekend :)

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  • noah-bearnoah-bear member
    Night time. It's dark and hides my jiggly stuff. Lol. Plus I hate morning breath and, well, with Noah, it wouldn't work out.
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  • asltrouble94asltrouble94
    PM people.  Unless it's FWP time then we sometimes we just have to get it done in the am.
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  • Deepak&DerekDeepak&Derek member
    I have read in a few articles that AM sex is best for conception, but DH and I are not AM people. I think the most important thing is that you are having fun and enjoying sex. We mostly have PM sex because we actually have time to enjoy that.  Sometimes we have AM sex if we were too exhausted in evening to have sex and those days we decided to go to work late (cannot do that all the time).
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  • h0b0girlh0b0girl member
    We tend to PM during the week and AM during the weekend... although we have been AM if O happens on a week day (just go into work a little later than normal!).
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  • KristipieKristipie member

    imageOatoa:
    Def PM.  DH is such a bad morning person its not even worth trying.  I sometimes get an afternoon treat but that's only when he's feeling randy.

    Shudders - my FIL name is Randy and when I'm in a grouchy mood DH likes to tell me he's 'feeling randy' - which completely grosses me out, but makes me laugh.

    Weeknights, we're definitely PM people.  Weekends - anytime!

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  • jerryliljessjerryliljess member

    If we have to work in the morning, then we will do it at night.  But on weekends or days off, whenever we're in the mood. 

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  • jertiejertie member
    During the week we usually do it at night, but on the weekends we focus on the morning.  Honestly, it's just a timing thing.  We'd rather get as much sleep as possible on the weekdays before work - how unromantic is that?

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