How often do you get out with your DC??
DS goes to a sitter 2 days a week (1 full day, 1 half day). DH takes him to a play group for an hour on Wednesdays. I take him out once on the weekends...either to lunch or an indoor playplace (tunnels, slides, etc).
Thats pretty much it. I don't take him to the grocery store or on errands, I do that on my own time. I kind of wish there was more to do with him in the winter but there really isn't for his age.
It's going to be a loooong winter.
Re: Those that live in cold weather/snow and don't use FT daycare...
Do you not take him on errands because he fusses, or just because you prefer doing them alone? If I didn't take B with me to stores, I'd be royally fvcked during crappy weather.
The weather here isn't horrible, but if it snows you can forget going out because people drive like they've never seen it before. Otherwise, we go out nearly every day for an hour or two. He (and I) get stir-crazy just sitting at home. Even just walking around Target - even if we don't need anything - keeps us from getting cabin fever. We go to various stores, sometimes buying stuff, sometimes grabbing a snack at the snack bar, sometimes just wandering aisles and "talking" to one another about what we see on the shelves.
We go to the library sometimes and he runs around the kids' area. Not often because he tries to pull everything off the shelves, but if we're desperate for something to do and we really can't spend money it's a nice option. We went to a fancy health food/grocery store last week just to see what there was to see, and ended up having a lovely time sampling some yummy cider, buying some fruit and juice, and otherwise just doing something a bit out of the norm. We worked on his fruit recognition while there, so it was educational too.
We aren't part of play groups or anything because our schedule is so different from most younger child families (we're night owls). We try to take him to see his cousin (six months older) once a week or so to get a bit of socialization (she needs it too) and that's nice.
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We don't get out much either. We live in a very small mountain town. There's not much to do here. We do go to play group one day a week. I save the errands for when DH is home on the weekends and we all do that as a family. We may run an errand or two during the week but for the most part we just stay in.
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I SAH, and we try to get out at least once a day still. As long as it isn't too cold (under -10F or so) we still generally play outside for a little while (even if just for 10-15 minutes) and we always head out one other time - whether to a play date, play group, running errands, or just running the hall at the local mall.
Both of us go crazy if we are home all day!
We don't use any daycare. I watch a baby twice a week, so I take DD with me over there. We generally have play dates on those days. I take her to the grocery store, to Target, pretty much every where. We also go to the zoo (when it's warm enough - high 30s and up), the library, the children's museum, the aquarium, out to lunch or to Starbucks for a girl's day.. Sometimes we just hop on the train and go on an adventure. We also still go to the park when it's not freezing out.
I will also be taking her to story time at our local library starting next month. Could you look into programs like that at your library?
This. Even if it's below zero he needs a little fresh air and a change of scenery every day, even if all we're doing is shovelling snow.