TTC After a Loss

Lowsey day! (vent)

I posted 2 weeks ago that I was applying for a new job. I sent out 3 resumes and got a call back on 2 of them that next Monday and interviewed on Wednesday. And STILL no call back. They both seem super promising. One of the ladies made sure I could start that next Monday.  The other one said I tested well and he just needed to check my references. It doesn't help that I got written up at work today for something that was completely out of my control. My manager even said she understood but was being forced to write me up by her boss.

To top it off I got the 2nd half of my bounus from last year and I had already had planned to spoil the baby with it. Makes me mad. Part of me is tempted to get baby stuff anyway. I want to be positive that we will have a baby soon enough but I just can't muster up that kind of motivation. MH said to go shopping for myself but even that takes motivation I don't have right now. You know I could buy a ton of OPK's and HPT's. HAHA

Sorry for the debbie downer vent it's just been such a rough rough day!

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  • I'm so sorry - that does sound like a rough day.  (((Hugs)))
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  • So sorry you had such a frustrating day.  I hope you still hear from one of those jobs...I know sometimes it takes a while for reference calls to be returned and all that.  ((Hugs to You))
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  • I hope you get called back soon. Job hunting can be very frustrating. I say you take a little bit of that extra money and pamper yourself. How about a mani and pedi? Or a massage? Save the rest for your take home baby :) ((big hugs)) on such a rough day.
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  • Thanks ladies. I am off to bed. DH just made it worse by bringing me the baby shower invitation for his nephew's 17 year old girlfriend who said I was jealous of her b/c I lost my baby! The sooner I go to sleep the sooner this day is done!!

    I am determined to have a great weekend. Thanks again ladies!!

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  • I am so sorry about the bad day (((HUGS)))  But you never know you could get a call back from both companies, telling you they both want you then it's you who had the choice of where you would like to work?  Try to stay optimistic, you ever hear about the book "The Secret"?  Pretty much if you think positive than positive things will happen (as hard as it is at times) 

    As for the bonus same as above stay positive, maybe not spend all of it on your future baby but buy a few small cute things like bibs with sayings or some booties, then treat your self to something relaxing.

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    Thanks ladies. I am off to bed. DH just made it worse by bringing me the baby shower invitation for his nephew's 17 year old girlfriend who said I was jealous of her b/c I lost my baby! The sooner I go to sleep the sooner this day is done!!

    I am determined to have a great weekend. Thanks again ladies!!

    WOW is all I can say!  Really?  If she were not PG I would say she needs a swift kick in the pants!  So sorry!

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    Missed M/C discoverd at 10w5d measuring 6w6d on 12/3/10 said goodbye 12/12/10 EDD 6/26/11 "this too shall pass"

    DS Born 9/29/2005 via c-section (breech)
    BFP #3 3/7/11 - EDD 11/17/11
    Betas: @14dpo-182 @18dpo-854!! @21dpo-3124!!!
    3-27-11 150 BPM!!!!
    He's a BOY!!!! Kieran Thomas

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  • ugggg, hope you hear back!  my husband got written up for some bullsh!t today, and i am livid about it!
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  • I am sorry you haven't heard back from any of the jobs yet and had a rough day. Stay optimistic and don't lose hope. I hope you hear back from one of them very soon. Hang in there!

    Sending lots of luck your way :) 

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  • You're not Debbie Downer you're just having another one of those terrible lousy days. And that's why this board is here... to vent. I'm sorry today sucked, and I really hope tomorrow is a better day for you! (HUGS)
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