hey gals---

smalltowngirl99 · January 2011

We went to Disneyland after all... BEAUTIFUL weather! We had an awesome time, but its funny how vacations and being away makes you appreciate home so much more!!

Its been 7 weeks since my D&E and while it was the worst time to come..AF came the second day we were on vacation... but I wont complain! So with that I am now officially allowed to TTC. Now that we can I'm worried and wondering if I'm ready... I know that I will never be worry free and will always have fears, but I'm just thinking maybe i should wait a few more cycles... so at this point I dont know if I'm TTA or TTC??

I hope you all have a great week

Rawr08 · January 2011

You definitely need to wait until you are emotionally ready to TTC. And I don't think you need to label what you are. Whether TTA, TAB or TTC you are welcome here.

vitan · January 2011

It's definitely scary. After the loss you think "I want to be pregnant, I wish I was STILL pregnant" and you can't wait to try again but when it's time, you start second guessing yourself. Definitely take the time to make sure you are ready either way. Regardless welcome back and glad you had fun at Disney. We have been having some beautiful weather in So Cal.

itsmegin · January 2011

I am so glad you had good weather, it's been so nice lately! I love CA!

Wait until you're ready, there's no rush and there's no reason to push yourself if you aren't.

jertie · January 2011

I'm glad that you had fun at Disney! It's so nice to get away from the real world for a while - isn't it? I was cleared for TTC after 2 cycles, but DH and I decided to wait another cycle just so we felt like we were emotionally ready. TTC after a loss is not easy and it comes with all kinds of emotional pitfalls. Whatever you decide, I wish you GL!

LilMaggs · January 2011

Welcome back, I'm glad you enjoyed your vacation. Deciding when to try again is never an easy choice, there's so many emotions that need to be worked through. Being pregnant never will be the same again, because there's always going to be that worry there. I'd recommend talking with your DH, and get his take on it. In the end, this is a decision you need to make together. When your desire to be pregnant outweighs your fear of another loss, you're ready.