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TTC After a Loss
My Chart
TTA while I focus on being the healthiest me I can be and living out my Roller Derby dreams
Surprise BFP 11/13/10 -- MC 12/26/10
Chem Preg and D&C in 2005
MC in 2001
Need help in "the deed" department
Ok, so my honey is not great at "doin' it" on demand - and who can blame him? It doesn't help that I haven't especially been in the mood either. I'm hoping that some of you who have maybe had or are having this issue deal with it.
I think he feels pressured - even though under different circumstances it wouldn't be a big deal.
Any tips?
My Chart
TTA while I focus on being the healthiest me I can be and living out my Roller Derby dreams
Surprise BFP 11/13/10 -- MC 12/26/10
Chem Preg and D&C in 2005
MC in 2001
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Re: Need help in "the deed" department
M/C 10wk 3d EDD: 2011 march 4 C/P EDD: 2011 september 11
Does he want to know when it is time?
When my DH doesn't want to BD, I usually give him a BJ and he's all good and ready to go.
Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11
This!
BFP#1: 7/14/10. EDD: 3/19/11--MMC-- D&C 9/2/10.
BFP#2: 12:22/10.EDD: 8/30/11 C/P 12/25/10
BFP#3: 10/26/11 EDD: 7/2/12-- Daniel born 7/14/12. My rainbow baby! BFP #4: 2.22/15 EDD: 11/4/15 C/P 2/28/15 BFP #5: 4/5/15 EDD 12/11/15 (Ectopic Pregnancy)
BFP #6: 3/2/16 EDD 11/5/16
<a href="http://www.thebump.com/?utm_source=ticker&utm_medium=HTML&utm_campaign=tickers" title="Baby Names"><img src="http://global.thebump.com/tickers/tt1cfe4e" alt=" BabyFetus Ticker" border="0" /></a>I've tried this and it worked once. I left my damn OPK on the counter and he saw it and asked what the lines meant so of course now he knows and is feeling the pressure.
I think in the future I just won't tell him.... probably my best bet, huh?
My Chart
TTA while I focus on being the healthiest me I can be and living out my Roller Derby dreams
Surprise BFP 11/13/10 -- MC 12/26/10
Chem Preg and D&C in 2005
MC in 2001
I don't tell him unless he asks. Or unless he's planning to make stupid plans and I remind him that next week might be a good baby-making week, so I'd rather he be home/available/sober. I always make sure and initiate at various times of the cycle so he is none the wiser.
Congrats to both my TTC buddies, Amberley18 and sb2006 on their beautiful babies!
I am going to have to hide them also. He says he does not want to know and wants to just go about it the old fashioned way like we did before. Just BDing all the time and hoping for the best but I'm not down for that this time.
Missed M/C discoverd at 10w5d measuring 6w6d on 12/3/10 said goodbye 12/12/10 EDD 6/26/11 "this too shall pass"
DS Born 9/29/2005 via c-section (breech)
BFP #3 3/7/11 - EDD 11/17/11
Betas: @14dpo-182 @18dpo-854!! @21dpo-3124!!!
3-27-11 150 BPM!!!!
He's a BOY!!!! Kieran Thomas
I'm with you! I'm too neurotic to just "let it happen." I'm way too type A for that (unfortunately). When I do something, it's either all or nothing... I know I should probably calm down a bit.
My Chart
TTA while I focus on being the healthiest me I can be and living out my Roller Derby dreams
Surprise BFP 11/13/10 -- MC 12/26/10
Chem Preg and D&C in 2005
MC in 2001
This & the BJ thing. What's weird is my DH can smell when I O and knows when I'm going to get AF. He always know even when I say nothing.
This is so ME! I can't count the number of times people have told me to "just relax" and "don't stress about it" and "just let it happen", etc. I know I should change and I wish I could relax, but let's face it - IT'S NOT GONNA HAPPEN!
Wear something sexy, that you wouldn't normally wear. This always gets my DH ready to go!!! and a BJ always helps
Same same!
BFP#2 02/18/11 * Beta@15dpo=215 * @18dpo=698 * @20dpo=2337 * @25dpo=10,931 * DS Arrived October 24, 2011
BFP#3 08/12 | D&C 9/12 (no hb)
BFP#4 Due May 1, 2014 Stick baby stick!