TTC After a Loss

So frustrated.

I posted last week about my HPT's still being positive. My OB ordered bloow work and the NP said that my hcg was 27. That was Thurday. I am using IC HPT's and today they are still positive. I really thought, hoped, that they would be negative today. I really really just want this all behind me. I don't understand. It is consuming me. Now I get to wait for the NP to call me back. Every time she calls she is confused as to why I am calling, asks me if I am bleeding and cramping. I get to remind her that I had a miscarriage and of my first day of my last menstral cycle, when I started bleeding, blah blah blah. I really like my OB. His staff is a joke.

Re: So frustrated.

  • Ugh, I know your frustration. I hope they go negative for you soon so you can move on!

    image
    My Chart
    TTA while I focus on being the healthiest me I can be and living out my Roller Derby dreams
    Surprise BFP 11/13/10 -- MC 12/26/10
    Chem Preg and D&C in 2005
    MC in 2001
  • Loading the player...
  • imagevinceandang:
    I'm so sorry you are going through that. Sad It SUCKS to see BFPs when you are waiting for it to go negative. It took me a little over 5 weeks to finally get a BFN. I hope you get yours very soon!

    Over 5 weeks? Why is my OB acting like I should be negative be now then? I was 7 weeks 1 day when I miscarried..so maybe this is all fine? What I don't understand is how I could still be getting positives today when my blood hcg was 27 Thursday. Especially with the IC!! I am just wanting to get on with it all..If I need a D&C, so be it, lets get it done. I am just tired of that possibility being dangled over my head. Thank you so much for your response. Sorry I am being a big baby. I am so sorry for your loss!

  • (((Hugs))) I'm so sorry.  That does sound really frustrating.
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
  • I'm sorry you have to put up with a crappy OB office staff and I'm even more sorry you're still getting +HPTs. I can't even begin to imagine how frustrating that must be. I hope your betas gown down soon and I'll be rooting for you when you finally get that negative.
    Natural MCs 2/4/09, 8/22/09 & 4/7/10
    Dx with Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome (APS)
    BFP #4 5/14/12
    5/17/12...1st Betas- 176, P4 3.6
    5/22/12...2nd Betas- 207, P4 6.1 (MC confirmed)
  • I'm so sorry.  Being in limbo is awful.  Plus, having to deal with your stupid doctor's staff - they sound like complete morons.  ((HUGS))

    ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Siggy Warning~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~


     Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
    image
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

  • Thanks everyone. Stupid douches still haven't called me back. I am just going to go to the office and demand the lab order. Maybe I will see the OB..he should frequent his practice=)
  • I'm so sorry your doctors office is such a PITA, I'm surprised they haven't ordered another draw for you to track you down to zero but good for you for tracking it yourself (although that has to be hard seeing those lines). Beta hell was the pits, mine dropped relatively quickly but it does take time and unfortunately the lower they get, the slower they tend to drop. I hope you get a negative very soon. *HUGS*
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • So sorry!  Hang in there and I hope you get a negative soon. ((Hugs to You))
    TTC in May 2009.
    M/C July 2009.
    BFP #2 6/1/11(1st cycle on Clomid)
    Norah Lynn was born on 2/3/2012
    TTC again January 2014



    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker


    Trying to Conceive Ticker
  • *hugs*  I would definitely be complaining to the OB/GYN.  There's zero excuse for not pulling charts.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"