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Defeated...

sisterraelsisterrael
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AF is here.  Life sucks.  I'm not sure if I can keep this up for much longer.  Every month it feels like another loss, another failure.  I just want things not to hurt SO much. 

I hope this cycle is it for you ladies. 

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  • PachitaPachita member

    ((HUGS))

    How many months have you been TTC after your loss?

    BFP#1: 7/14/10.  EDD: 3/19/11--MMC-- D&C 9/2/10.
    BFP#2: 12:22/10.EDD: 8/30/11 C/P 12/25/10
    BFP#3: 10/26/11 EDD: 7/2/12-- Daniel born 7/14/12. My rainbow baby!                                                                                                                                           BFP #4:  2.22/15 EDD: 11/4/15 C/P 2/28/15                                                                                                                                                                                      BFP #5:  4/5/15   EDD 12/11/15 (Ectopic Pregnancy)

    BFP #6: 3/2/16 EDD 11/5/16
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  • NiNi143NiNi143

    (HUGE HUGS)

     

    I'm afraid I won't be much help, because I'm feeling the same way.

    I can just tell you that you're not alone.

    It's so hard each month to start all over again. My only comfort these days is to know I have all of you ladies for support.

     Try and do something positive for yourself. Hopefully you'll find some renewed (sp?) strength and positivity by the end of the day.

     

    We're here for you. :) 

     

     

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  • purplechic7105purplechic7105 member

    I'm with you....sending lots of hugs and strength your way!! Please know you are not alone.   

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    BFP #1 9/2/10; EDD 5/10/11. Natural m/c @ 9 wks 10/5/10; misoprostol assisted.

    BFP #2 2/7/11; EDD 10/19/11. CP 2/17/11.

    BFP #3 7/25/11; EDD 4/5/12. Healthy baby boy born 4/5/12, so in love!!! :)

    BFP #4 9/13/13; EDD 5/22/14. M/C @ 6 wks 9/28/13.

    BFP #5 3/10/13; EDD 11/21/14.  Stick little one, stick! Beta #1 23 (11 DPO); #2 66 (13 DPO); #3 163 (15 DPO); #4 2,860!!! (21 DPO). Saw HB on 4/4 @ 144BPM, hooray!

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  • mizrunzoumizrunzou
    {HUGS} Please know you aren't alone in this.  Wish none of us had to feel this way.
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  • shoefreak85shoefreak85
    (((HUGS)))
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    BFP #2 4/25/2011 Please stick, baby!! EDD 1/1/2012
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  • mizdiz444mizdiz444
    (((hugs)))
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  • cfloccocflocco
    So sorry about AF arriving.  I think we all feel very depressed the day AF arrives.  You are not alone and try to stay strong!  {{{{Huge Hugs}}}}
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    (((Hugs))) I'm so sorry
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
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    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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  • TapatioTapatio
    I'm sorry ((hugs)).
    Natural MCs 2/4/09, 8/22/09 & 4/7/10
    Dx with Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome (APS)
    BFP #4 5/14/12
    5/17/12...1st Betas- 176, P4 3.6
    5/22/12...2nd Betas- 207, P4 6.1 (MC confirmed)
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  • jertiejertie member
    I'm so sorry.  It doesn't get any easier - does it?  ((BIG HUGS))

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  • sisterraelsisterrael
    Thanks ladies.  I do appreciate the support so much.  This is our 6th month TTC after our loss, we tried for 11 months before we got pregnant.  I think I'm taking it so hard this time because our EDD is coming up soon and I wanted to be pregnant again before that rolled around.
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  • MommyandKateMommyandKate
    I'm really sorry.
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  • anonomityanonomity
    I'm sorry.  I still feel this way every month when AF shows.   ((HUGS))
    TTC since January 2010
    BFP 5/9/10. U/S - no heartbeat 6/2/10 (7 weeks). Induced miscarriage 6/7/10.
    Chemical pregnancies 12/2/10, 1/3/11, and 2/7/11.
    dx: RPL due to poor quality uterine lining; begin progesterone January 2011
    BFP 3/10/11. EDD 11/19/11. E arrived 11/15/11!

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  • clausekaclauseka member
    I am so very sorry.  I feel your pain!  I hope you do not have to face this disappointment next cycle.  ((Hugs to You))
    TTC in May 2009.
    M/C July 2009.
    BFP #2 6/1/11(1st cycle on Clomid)
    Norah Lynn was born on 2/3/2012
    TTC again January 2014


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  • LilMaggsLilMaggs member
    *hugs*
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