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spicing up FWP

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How do you spice up FWP and/or what's your favorite sex toy?
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  • tmhdmhtmhdmh

    we're pretty boring now that i think of it. sex is great, but we dont use toys. i have to start spicing things up soon.

    im excited to hear what you girls do. give us some ideas!!

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  • PachitaPachita member

    It's a sexy Sunday night!  hehe...

    Believe it or not...we have not sex toys.....what's worse, I've never had a vibrator in my life!!  That doesn't mean I don't take care of myself!  I just don't need those types of apparatus.  But I def. think I might buy one in the near future.

    I'd personally like to add more spice to our FWP.  To tell you the truth, FWP is as plain and up to the point as it gets...cuz it's just that...FWP. 

    Having sex any other time is more enjoyable for me. We do more positions,it  lasts longer, there's a whole lot more foreplay, just more everything.

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  • ambs21ambs21 member
    We only have 1 toy, but it came highly recommended at a girls' night out!  It's called the double dolphin (I think), and we both love it!  Like PP though, FWP is pretty to the point, the toy & random positions don't get used for that. Embarrassed
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  • twistedmetaltwistedmetal

    my husband is equal parts romantic and a tease.  the only addition we've ever needed was preseed, but only on very stressed days, just to get us started.

    he is the master at getting me worked up with teases and things for hours before hand.  and hes usually good at not making fwp a "chore".  he makes it fun and cracks a lot of jokes (countless times we have had to pause for laughing fits, usually his fault).

    hes a physical person (as in he likes cuddling, not 'physical' in a bad way), so i think i won the jackpot with this one...only wish id met him maybe 4years sooner 

    no toys, unless he is gone for training. 

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  • lotus88lotus88 member
    That's the problem. FWP seems so much like a task. Before the m/c it was really messing with our sex life and we were arguing more.  FWP was straight to the point and then the recreational sex started to get straight to the point. I want to prevent that now that we're TTC again.
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  • tmhdmhtmhdmh
    i wish i could talk with an accent like french/ italian, just to sound more sexy, but i'd prob sound like a fool!
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    Hitachi magic wand...just sayin.
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  • twistedmetaltwistedmetal

    imagetmhdmh:
    i wish i could talk with an accent like french/ italian, just to sound more sexy, but i'd prob sound like a fool!

    ive found the british accent goes a lot further than the french accent.

     :)

    source: a brit with a french mum 

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  • TapatioTapatio

    Our FWP is pretty straight forward. Our sexy time other times of the month are WAY better. We're both more relaxed and there's more energy to enjoy it. FWP doesn't always land during the most convenient time.

    The only way I've managed to spice it up is by initiating in a really subtle way. I've come out fresh from a shower wearing my DH's baggy t-shirt. As soon as he realizes I have no underwear he is READY :)

    We've also tried doing the deed somewhere else besides the bedroom (living room couch, dining table, on top of the dryer...). And lingerie is also a plus!

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  • twistedmetaltwistedmetal
    imageTapatio:


    The only way I've managed to spice it up is by initiating in a really subtle way. I've come out fresh from a shower wearing my DH's baggy t-shirt. As soon as he realizes I have no underwear he is READY :)

    once i get him past the "you just took a shower, though"  this is definitely an occurance at our house 

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  • johnnys junejohnnys june member

    I play dress up :)  The only "toy" we have is a vibrating ring (we rarely use).  We're "plain" so to speak, but definitely NOT boring.  DH and I both agreed to RARELY if EVER "just have sex."  We've both been married before to people who either hated sex or didn't want it from us.  We have so much chemistry and passion.  I usually end up in tears if we have sex with no connection, lol.  

     To spice it up though, I play dress up alot.  I own different lingerie, and mix it up with heels, boots, tights, ect.  And if he's not in the mood, default is the school girl mini skirt and white collared shirt.  Oh, and don't forget the camera (photograph or video --or iPhone).  Whip that out in the middle and DH gets all fresh and excited! haha.  What man doesn't want to see is penis in action! hahaha 

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  • ewilliams1127ewilliams1127 member
    I thought since I was late to this party it would already be mentioned but its not...The Silver Bullet! Its a must in our bedroom! DH loves it too! That an exscream edible cream (female heightner). That is a sure thing for us!
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