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facebook "friend" posted this! really???

mypeanut12mypeanut12
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"god I cant wait to have this baby. Mainly so I can have my body back so I can start abusing it with alcohol and energy pills hahaaaa jk guys (or am I?)  I am pretty tired of being pregnant, please let this baby come out now!"

 This is my cousins wife and she knows two of us in her husbands family have had a miscarriage. and we are both her friends on fb. i was in shock when i read this crap last night. I was ready to call her and say wtf!!!! she is deleted now! sorry just had to share because reading it again got me all pissed off again!

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  • biddy53178biddy53178
    she needs a throat punch!
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  • mypeanut12mypeanut12

    she is having her baby shower this weekend, good thing we are celebrating our anniversary and won't be able to make it. I got her a cute little outfit to, looks like I will be making a return.

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  • Lorange-8Lorange-8 member
    I have a cousin like this. I've blocked her from my facebook. And she know's about my losses. People just don't understand. :(
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  • julesjbjulesjb member
    I would def post on her status that she should count her blessings!
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  • fireflies0306fireflies0306

    I am sorry she didn't exercise that filter that we all have (but some of us don't know how to use!).  But good for you for eliminating that from you life then!

     So insensitive! I'm sorry! 

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  • HadleySHadleyS member

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    Ouch, I am so sorry!  I would probably have messaged her or called her to let her know how hurtful it is to you and disrespectful to life.  You could let her know that you might not be the only one on FB that found it offensive and even though she was obviously joking it still is kinda sour.

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  • Heidikins27Heidikins27
    Ah. Facebook strikes again. Sorry you have to deal with this. [hugs]
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  • TapatioTapatio

    imagebiddy53178:
    she needs a throat punch!

    ...followed by having her face mangled! Angry

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  • mypeanut12mypeanut12

    Good thing my DH was home to talk me down lol! or she would have gotten a very nice phone call.

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  • ravenorchidravenorchid
    Wow. Some people  are so clueless. ((Hugs))
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  • ColleenS629ColleenS629 member

    imagejulesjb:
    I would def post on her status that she should count her blessings!

    This. What an idiot. 

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  • smallfry5909smallfry5909 member

    She's a b***tch. The end.

    sorry you had to see that!

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  • KaitySueWhoKaitySueWho member
    she sounds like a peach
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  • ewilliams1127ewilliams1127 member
    imageTapatio:

    imagebiddy53178:
    she needs a throat punch!

    ...followed by having her face mangled! Angry

    I second this motion!

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  • jerryliljessjerryliljess member
    Seriously!?  She needs a good kick in the a$$!
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  • Izabella22Izabella22 member
    Thank goodness you deleted her, that is pathetic... alcohol and energy pills, nice to know that kids got a great future ahead of it... ugh. I'm glad you have a good out for the shower, take the $ from the return gift and do something nice for yourself! *HUGS* Sorry you had to see that.
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  • PachitaPachita member
    Total idiot!

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  • mizdiz444mizdiz444

    What an a-hole!!  Seriously!!  Sorry you had to see that.  ((((Hugs))))

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  • cfloccocflocco
    OMG!!!  I can't believe she posted that.  Good move deleting her!
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  • thewayiamthewayiam
    Wow, what an idiot. Can I have her name so I can write back on her wall?????!!!!
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  • sumrbride09sumrbride09

    imagebiddy53178:
    she needs a throat punch!

    This. What a jacka$$.

     

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  • MrsAtchMrsAtch member
    Someone needs to slap the b!#*h. Sorry that people are so damn insensitive. I hope she doesn't ever have to find out just how lucky she is.
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  • Fallon621Fallon621
    imageTapatio:

    imagebiddy53178:
    she needs a throat punch!

    ...followed by having her face mangled! Angry

    And a swift kick in the pants Big Smile

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  • clausekaclauseka member
    Sorry you had to waste your time even reading that.  I hate when I hear pregnant women complain.  I could understand if there are serious medical concerns, but when it's about ridiculous complaints like not being able to get hammered and guzzle redbull it makes my blood boil!  ((Hugs to You))
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  • CaroleeCarolee member
    EW!!!  Delete!  She sounds like a gem...
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  • LilMaggsLilMaggs member
    WTF?  That merits a throatpunch.  I'd also be very tempted to post something nasty on her status too.
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  • millejj1millejj1 member
    Total FH fail...
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  • SheriBTSheriBT member
    That is disgusting and I seriously hate people who post junk like that.  Angry');" title="Angry - Angry">image
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