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Hard Times: MIL Passed Away and Our First BFN

too_muchtoo_much
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My MIL passed away this weekend.  It has been such a hard and sad time. 

I've been testing negative for days now, so I was expecting our BFN from yesterday's beta.  This is our 4th transfer and we've had 3 chemicals and now 1 BFN.  Life is just rough.

TTC #1 and Only Since August 2008 DH: Severe Male Factor Infertility (Diagnosed July 2009) Me: Clean bill of health 2 IVF w/ICSI cycles + 2 FET = 3 BFP = 3 Chemical Pregnancies FET #2 = BFN Tired of IVF - Trying for a miracle with IUI IUI #1 - 1.1 Million Motile = BFN Surprise Natural BFP on 1/10/12...Praying this is our take home baby
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  • SLPMelSLPMel member
    I am so sorry hun.  Please take care of yourself-my T & P are wiht you and your DH!
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  • Maddie753Maddie753
    I am so sorry for your loss and for your BFN.
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  • hollymichaelhollymichael
    I am so sorry.
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  • Edwina.McDunnoughEdwina.McDunnough
    I'm so sorry.
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  • 07may0707may07
    ((hugs))  I am so sorry for all you are going through.  Thoughts and prayers for your family.
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  • cbubbles2cbubbles2
    [hugs] I'm so sorry hun. T&Ps for you and your family during this difficult time.
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  • MrsRich0226MrsRich0226
    I'm so sorry.  ((hugs))
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  • thewormstheworms member

    I'm so sorry cutie.

    ((HUGS))

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    Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the little voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~Mary Anne Radmacher (thank you beadinglady)

    It's been a long journey. TTC since 9/06. multiple IUI's and IVF's and 4 m/c's. IVF#3 = BFP, twins, induced at 34w6d due to baby b passing away (no explanation). Delivered on 35w1d, Baby A - baby girl, and Baby B - baby boy, our little angel.
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  • kthappy76kthappy76
    I am so sorry for your loss and your BFN.  Dealing with loss up and down the family is so rough.  I hope that you get some good news soon.  (((hugs)))
    TTK 9/06 / TTC 10/08 / Twins 12/11 / Life Blog
    5 REs + 3 surgical hysteroscopies for septum/lap + 3 failed IUIs
    IVF w/ICSI/AH & acu = BFP!, unexplained spontaneous m/c @ 8w2d (our little girl),
    FET w/acu = BFP!, B/G twins!, lost MP @19w, dx w/funneling cervix @20w,
    twins nearly lost to IC @21w, saved by rescue cerclage, 17P & 16w of bedrest
    Our twins born @36w4d via CS when A came foot first

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  • nola8446nola8446
    I am so sorry to hear about your loss and your BFN.  Sending tons of T&P to you and your DH.
    SAIF and PAIF Always Welcome
    07/14/97 - Stillborn twins at 22 weeks
    12/20/99 - Miscarriage #1 - 11 wks 4 days laproscopic surgery due to rupture of tube
    07/01/01 - Divorced
    05/30/09 - Re-married to a wonderful man!
    11/11/09 - Miscarriage #2 - 10 wks 3 days, D&C
    Dx: Unexplained
    07/30/10 - 10/19/10 - IUI #1 - IUI #4 clomid cd2-6 + premarin cd7-13 + HCG Trigger=BFFN's
    11/10/10 - IVF #1 Start stims ER#1 11/22, ER #2 11/24, ET 11/29=BFFN
    03/14/11 - IVF #2 start stims, ER-03/26/11, ET-03/31/11, beta 04/08/11 = BFFN
    05/16/11 - Hail Mary Cycle - Inj+TI =BFP!! 06/08/11 Beta #1 71.8, 06/10/11 Beta #2 201, U/S 6/20-1 sac. U/S 6/28 sac and hb of 118!!
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  • yarnymommyyarnymommy member
    I'm so sorry.
    Married September 2005 - TEAM PINK x2 this time around :)

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  • Jlynn3Jlynn3

    I am so sorry.  Sending lots of T&Ps your way.

    big (((hugs)))

    SAIFW
    TTC since 2008 dx PCOS & MFI
    Clomid/Femara no "O"
    IVF #1 BFN
    FET #1 cancelled for biopsy
    FET #1.2 c/p, July 2012 c/p
    IUI #1 & 1.2 canceled
    IVF #2 ER 12/1, Freeze all due to OHSS
    FET #2.1 cancelled due to DVT risk, FET #2.2 Jan 2013
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  • labbylover03labbylover03 member

    I'm so very sorry.  Thinking about you...

    (((hugs)))

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  • FutureMoutouxFutureMoutoux member

    I'm so sorry!!!! Sending T&P's and hugs your way!

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  • Ginger71Ginger71 member
    I'm so sorry. You and your DH are in my T+P. Wishing you peace and comfort in this difficult time. We are here for you. (((hugs)))
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  • MBfromBMCMBfromBMC
    I'm so sorry for your loss and your BFN. 
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    TTC since March 2009 // Me and DH - 28
    Testing Summer/Fall 2010 - Unexplained IF
    IUIs #1-4 ~ Clomid/Ovidrel/TI/IUI ~ all BFNs
    IUI #5 ~ Femara/Ovidrel/TI/IUI ~ BFN
    IUIs #6-9 ~ Research Study Meds/Pregnyl/TI/IUI ~ all BFNs
    IVF Consultation, More Testing
    Diagnostic Cycle ~ Mucinex/Progesterone/TI ~ BFN
    IVF #1 ~ Menopur/Bravelle/Ganirelix/Novarel/Progesterone/Lupron
    7R, 6F // 2 transferred // 3 frosties ~ BFN
    FET #1 ~ Estrace/PIO/Lupron
    3 thawed // 2 transferred // 1 lost // no more frosties ~ BFP!!
    Beta #1 - 456 // Beta #2 - 1176 // Beta #3 - 2933 // Beta #4 - 6753
    EDD: May 16, 2013
    Threatened MC at 6w2d
    Bedrest for SCH // 6w2d through 10w1d
    Elevated TSH and Lazy Thyroid DX @ 10w - Started Synthroid
    Finally released from RE at 13w
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  • scooterqscooterq member
    Oh sweetie, I am so sorry! T&Ps to you and our family.
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  • Yolanbo9Yolanbo9 member
    I so sorry for your loss and your BFN :( My t&p's are with you and your DH. Take care of eachother right now.
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  • too_muchtoo_much
    Thank you so much for your kind words.  It really helps.
    TTC #1 and Only Since August 2008 DH: Severe Male Factor Infertility (Diagnosed July 2009) Me: Clean bill of health 2 IVF w/ICSI cycles + 2 FET = 3 BFP = 3 Chemical Pregnancies FET #2 = BFN Tired of IVF - Trying for a miracle with IUI IUI #1 - 1.1 Million Motile = BFN Surprise Natural BFP on 1/10/12...Praying this is our take home baby
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  • Temp590840000005378Temp590840000005378
    So sorry for your loss, big Hugs!!!
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  • Mandy_Lou83Mandy_Lou83 member
    I as so sorry. Sending tons of T&P's your way.
    After 3 years of infertility we were blessed with twin girls through private infant adoption.
    Forever our's October 17th 2012
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  • SoonToBeMamaPSoonToBeMamaP member
    I'm so sorry for your loss, and your BFN... hang in there, you're in my prayers... <3
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  • militarywife2bmilitarywife2b
    My condolences to you and your family and a huge (((hug)))
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  • DeputiesWifeDeputiesWife

    I am so so sorry.

    ::hugs::

    TTC #2 since June '08

    ~*DD 10.21.07*~

    dx unexplained

    IUI #1-4 BFN

    IVF#1 June 2011 BFN

    IVF#2 Dec 2011

    Beta#1 12/21 : 812 Beta#2 12/23 : 1634

    EDD 8/25

    *PAIFW/SAIFW*

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  • petite chouettepetite chouette member
    I'm sorry. ((Hugs))
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    4 Clomid cycles + 3 IUIs w/ injectables + 1 IVF = 1 m/c, 1 ectopic
    FET May 2011 = BFP! Beta 1 (8dp5dt): 336, Beta 2 (12dp5dt): 2033, Beta 3 (14dp5dt): 4706

    ? So thankful for our little guys, born at 33 weeks. ?
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  • KDC1014KDC1014 member
    I'm so sorry. 
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  • butterfly843butterfly843
    (hugs) so sorry

    Jenn

    image 3 IUI's all BFN

    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • JM1977JM1977 member
    I'm so sorry.  I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
    TTC with DOR, low morphology, fertilization issues
    IVF#1 Oct 2009 (CCRM) - BFN
    IVF#2 March 2010 - Poor response/cancelled
    DE IVF#1 Aug 2010 - BFN
    DE IVF#2 Dec 2010 - Transferred 1, 2 frozen - BFP!
    TTC#2 FET Jan 2013 - Transferred 1 - BFP!

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  • beantownbride25beantownbride25
    I'm so sorry. (((hugs)))
    ***SAIFW***
    TTC since 2008
    One blocked Tube
    Ectopic pregnancy November 2008
    M/C at 6 weeks in January 2010
    M/C at 8 weeks (blighted ovum) May 2010

    3 IUIs with Gonal-f, Sept, Oct, November 2010 = BFN
    IVF#1 1/2011 - 32 eggs retrieved, 26 fertilized, 2 trans. = BFN
    Time to regroup and heal and FET at some point
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  • bbakersgirl75bbakersgirl75 member
    I am beyond sorry for your loss and BFN. My prayers are with you and DH and family.
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