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I was asked not to get KU...

MommyandKateMommyandKate
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by DH's best friend, who announced he's getting married in early Oct and so would like me to shut my legs for the next four weeks please...

Hahahaha.  Nice try, buddy.

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  • millejj1millejj1 member
    Oh the issues I have with that request...
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  • lotus88lotus88 member
    What the f--- planet is he from?!
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  • jen629jen629 member
    Indifferent um yeah I would tell him to bite me
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  • vitanvitan member
    haha. I wonder if your DH would appreciate knowing his friend requested he not get any for a whole month.
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  • mizdiz444mizdiz444
    Rude!  I hate when people ask that!
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  • TapatioTapatio
    I would have been very tempted to give him a swift kick in the gonads!
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  • martinimommamartinimomma member

    imageTapatio:
    I would have been very tempted to give him a swift kick in the gonads!

    This. All the better to ensure he did not get any for a while, either.

    And he can stuff that request, btw. Indifferent  Unless its your wedding, no sense derailing your TTC timing.

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  • myaddiwaddi06myaddiwaddi06 member
    Did you tell him to "f" off? Or is that only what I would have done? I hate when people act like this like getting pregnant on command is so easy so it's no biggie to waste an entire cycle! LAME SAUCE!
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    Tongue Tied Comment wrong on so many levels...
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  • jerryliljessjerryliljess member
    Wow, he sounds like an AWing Groomzilla! 
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  • JulsWJulsW
    imagesandyd:

    imageTapatio:
    I would have been very tempted to give him a swift kick in the gonads!

    This. All the better to ensure he did not get any for a while, either.

    And he can stuff that request, btw. Indifferent  Unless its your wedding, no sense derailing your TTC timing.

    ALL OF THIS! Ugh so sorry about him, I would have told him exactly where to go!

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  • twistedmetaltwistedmetal

    imageVitan:
    haha. I wonder if your DH would appreciate knowing his friend requested he not get any for a whole month.

    I would tell my husband we are not allowed to have sex because HIS friend doesnt want his plans ruined.

     

    Or just tell his friend not to make any plans involving you two in the sep-nov time range, because you have plans 

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  • clausekaclauseka member

    Wow!  Someone may have to find out he's not the center of the universe...what better way than a BFP this cycle. Good luck to you!!!

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  • Fallon621Fallon621
    WTF?!!?  That makes me Angry for you!  What the heck was he thinking?  Was that a serious request??  What did Dh say to him?  I am so sorry that someone would even think to ask you to do somthing like that. ((HUGS))
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  • crash916crash916 member
    Maybe him telling you not to get KU will be baby dust for you! Best of luck!
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  • ccansdaleccansdale

    well maybe you should tell him that if you do get KU they'll have to move their wedding date.. i mean a rediculous statement traded for a rediculous statement!

    I got this from a co work recently (she doesnt want to deal with holiday season with out me- i'm a store manager)... i was like... if i do get KU... i'll be happy... not so much worried about the store...

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  • thewayiamthewayiam
    What an a$$.
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  • ewilliams1127ewilliams1127 member

    imagecrash916:
    Maybe him telling you not to get KU will be baby dust for you! Best of luck!

     

    My thoughts exactly!

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  • LilMaggsLilMaggs member

    imageVitan:
    haha. I wonder if your DH would appreciate knowing his friend requested he not get any for a whole month.

    This comment if full of win. 

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