Joining you soon...

madiegirl83

So I have been on the first tri board but I think I will be joining you here very soon.  I got my BFP in December...  I went to the OB at about 5w1d and the yolk sac measured about 4w6d, so we set up for me to go today to do another u/s and hear/see a HB.  The OB said he couldn't see much on the external u/s so we switched to the internal.  He still only saw a yolk sac, no baby, no progress and only measuring 5w3d.  He said "I don't see what I would normally see in a viable pregnancy".  He set up another u/s to confirm for next friday, but he expects I will m/c in the next few weeks.  I just hate that I still have all these hormones and pregnancy symptoms, but I won't get the baby out of it!  I feel a little numb right now, but I guess maybe that is normal.... Anyway, just wanted to introduce myself on this board.  TIA.

lavril

I'm so sorry

Fallon621

((HUGS))  I am so very sorry fo your loss. Welcome to the board though.   And I can understand the devistation that waiting to pass everything had on you.  I had a missed MC and waited a week after finding out.  I took a medicine called Misoprostal to incourage it a dialate me. It does have its side affects but have you considerd it or were yu given that option, because it may take a while?

Niftyroses

I'm in the same boat.  I should be 11 weeks, I went in at 8weeks and it was 7 w size.  I went in 3 weeks later, still same size.  I'm going through the actual mc right now.  I didnt get any drugs and opted not toget a D&C if I didnt need one.  Although the drugs might be helpful.

I was in shock when the doctor told me, but I tried to prepare myself for the worst after the small embryo in the first one.  Nothing prepares you for the words "no heartbeat". 

We are all here for you.  I have all the women in my prayers

madiegirl83

Thank you all so much.  I appreciate the support and thoughts and prayers.  He did not give me an option for meds to move things along... probably since he wants to have me back next friday to confirm.  For now we just sit and wait... thinking every little twinge in my abdomen could be it...  That might be the worst part right now besides still feeling pregnant... it's the waiting for it to happen...

kmn3

I'm so sorry for your loss

psychgrrl

I, too, am in this position. I went to the dr. on Friday and there was no heartbeat (I agree with pp, nothing can prepare you for this), only a sac of some sort.  I was supposed to be 9 weeks, 1 day.  She sent me for bloodwork and I go for more on Monday, another ultrasound on Tuesday.  I took a HPT this AM and the line was faintly positive.  I think the worst part of this is that no one knows because we didn't even tell anyone I was pregnant and now I have to wait for a miscarriage or for my ob to set up a d/c.  In the meantime I feel like I'm in limbo - like until I'm officially not pregnant anymore I have to live like I am.  It sucks.