TTC After a Loss

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Hey everyone, I have been lurking for a few weeks and thought it was time to say hi. My story...had spotting at 7w5d found out @ 8w2d that it wasnt going to be a viable pregnancy. 8w6d there was no longer a heart beat. Had a D&C @ 9w1d. We are waiting for two cycles before starting TTC again. Never thought I would be so excited to get my period. Body issues(theres about 20 more but I'll just share these two for now): gained 6 pound in the last month! No exercise +x-mas=not good. Boobs are still big, HB is happy but I'm hoping with some exercise and diet they will return to normal. It sounds like all this is normal (lurking).  That's about it for now. Hi again!

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  • Welcome to the board, I am so sorry for your loss. I really hope these next 2 cycles go by quickly for you.


    BFP#1 {Cashew} - 9.19.09 EDD 5.26.10
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    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

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  • I'm sorry for your loss.  Welcome and may your stay here be short and healing!

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  • Welcome to the board.... Sorry about your loss. My most recent was the beginning of December and I was not allowed to exercise, I completely understand how you are feeling about exercise and diet. I just got back to the gym and need a major detox after the holidays!!
    BFP #1 6/18/10 Saw HB 7/15/10 Missed M/C 8/17/10 @ 12 weeks 2 days- 2 D&C's( 8/20 and 8/26) BFP#2 11/21/10 Nonviable at 5wks, possible ectopic. Methotrexate 12/3/10&12/9/10 BFP#3 3/10/11 Beta@12dpo 39 Beta@14dpo 160! 21 DPO 2439 HB at 7wks 127 EDD 11/17/11
    ITS A BOY!!!! Born 11/13/11 BFP #4: 10/29/12 edd 7/11/12
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  • Welcome. So sorry you have to be here :(
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    BFP#1 5.27.10 DS became an angel at 21 weeks on 9.22.10
    BFP#2 4.16.11 Healthy baby girl born 12.14.11
    BFP#3 9.3.12 A healthy, bouncing baby SISTER on the way! EDD 5.12.13

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  • Hi Amber -- Thanks for de-lurking :) and making an introduction. I am sorry for your loss.  There are women on this Board who have had losses at all stages of preganacy - and my loss was around the same timing as yours.  I hope you find the Board to be a source of help and healing on your TTCAL journey - I know I have.

    As you get to know us, take a few minutes to check out the TTCAL Blog maintained by a few of the lovely ladies on this Board.  It is a great source of information about TTCAL, as well as about how the Board operates.  There is a link in my siggy below.

    Hope you come in from lurking again soon!  Smile

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    BFP #2 2/2011
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    Surprise BFP 1/8/2013...say what? Baby A arrived 9/2013

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  • I'm sorry for your loss.  Welcome to the board - the ladies here are fantastic!  I had to wait 2 cycles - they seemed to take forever at the time - but I did use the time to get back to my pre-pg weight and get stuff done like dentist appts and flu shots.  I am sorry that you have to be here and I hope that your time here is short and sweet!

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  • Sorry for your loss, and welcome.  My timeline was very similar to yours - D&C 9w0d - and I think I gained 5 or 6 lbs in that one month of pregnancy as well, even though it didn't feel like it.  I watch my weight so going from 114 to 119 is something I would otherwise notice.  The weight (along with the bigger boobs) actually "corrected" itself within about 3-4 weeks without me doing a thing, so hopefully you won't have too much trouble getting the weight off.  Good luck. :)
  • Welcome. I'm sorry for your loss.
    m/c 7/17/10
    Dx: MFI- 3% morph
    IUIs: Gonal-F + Ovidrel + b2b IUI= BFNs
    IVF with ICSI= BFP! EDD 11/25/11
    3/18- Beta #1 452! 3/20- Beta #2 1,026!! 3/27- First u/s- TWINS!
    Our twin boys arrived at 36w5d due to IUGR and a growth discordance

    FET: Medicated FET moved up to 5/23 due to ovulation
    Transferred a 6BB hatched blastocyst- genetically normal female embryo
    BFP! 5/28- 5dp6dt      
    6/1 Beta #1- 223! 6/3 Beta #2- 567!

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  • I'm sorry for your loss. Welcome to the TTCAL board.
    Natural MCs 2/4/09, 8/22/09 & 4/7/10
    Dx with Antiphospholipid Antibody Syndrome (APS)
    BFP #4 5/14/12
    5/17/12...1st Betas- 176, P4 3.6
    5/22/12...2nd Betas- 207, P4 6.1 (MC confirmed)
  • Welcome to the board! I am very sorry for your loss.
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    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
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    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
  • I am sorry for your loss *hugs*  Welcome to the board, may the next two cycles go very quickly for you.
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