TTC After a Loss

Positivity- it's the word of the day

So I am trying to be positive today after I had a pretty bad day yesterday. I have this co worker who is also TTC so we like to swap daily stories but she can get pretty depressing sometimes. She has been trying for almost 11 years and has an abundance of health issues in her way. She had a few rounds of IVF and had a miscarriage with the last one at 8wks. So she definitely knows what I am going through but I feel as though she brings me down sometimes. She constantly talks about wanting a baby, wishing she had a baby in her belly and she even talks about her pregnancy. I try my best every day to stay positive and keep it out of the forefront of my mind (not easy here at the OBGYN office) BUT I do a pretty good job until she makes her comments.

So anyway, when I started this post I was planning on not complaining...didn't work out so well Embarrassed....My original point was I feel much better when I stay positive and stay away from the dark place of I wish, I want, it's not fair etc etc...What will happen will happen and I have to trust it will be what is best for me! It's not easy but I hope I can convince at least some of you to join me in the positive place at least for today Stick out tongue

?Nothing lasts forever ? not even your troubles.?
       Arnold H Glasgow

Re: Positivity- it's the word of the day

  • I'll do my best to be in a positive place today....might do me some good Smile
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  • I have to say that i am pretty positive IRL. I am negative on the internet, LOL. It's my vent. but I know that positivity is a much better place. :)
    6 & 2 year old, 2 losses
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    I have to say that i am pretty positive IRL. I am negative on the internet, LOL. It's my vent. but I know that positivity is a much better place. :)

      haha I have to agree it's much easier to be neg on here but i don't want to ALWAYS complain to you ladies :)

  • I'll be positive- everyone have a cookie!

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