Is anyone's sex life better than ever after having a baby? A girlfriend I work with and I were talking about this today and I told her I never feel up to it, and poor dear husband always feels up to it.. plus it hurts so I avoid it at all costs. I am working on it though, bc I am fully aware that DH has his needs... lately we don't do it enough to make it not hurt anymore. So it's like the first time everytime. Anyway, my point is my friend ssaid her sex life is actually better than ever since having a baby and that they have sex almost everynight. I was FLOORED. I have a hard time believing her lol, I just wish ours was better than ever!!!!!