DS still wakes up twice or so a night and takes 8-10 oz bottles each time. I'm fairly certain he does this because isn't taking enough food during the day.
Today he had half a bowl of oat meal for breakfast
a bowl of mac and cheese and two dino nuggets for lunch
some more mac and cheese and peas and carrots for dinner.
He also had some apple slices, 4 crackers, about half a roll, and some raw carrots and celery for snacks.
Does this sound like enough? Thanks!
Re: I don't think DS eats enough
How many ounces of milk is he getting during the day?
My daughter doesn't eat a lot more than what you just mentioned, but she does drink 16-20 ounces of whole milk a day and she STTN. However, she's only 20 lbs and 27.25 inches, so that may make a difference.
I don't really know how much milk he's getting because he won't drink it out of a sippy. His doctor told us to get fluid in him in whatever form he would take because he was getting dehydrated so he drinks a lot of juice and water.
He's also small. He's 30 inches and only 19 lbs 12 oz
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if it's habit then how do I break it? If I just let him cry he can go for hours. I tried putting water in his bottle instead of milk and he hated that. He went back down but he woke up every half hour until I gave him milk... I'm at a loss. I'm also scared to just not give him any because if he's really hungry I don't want him to sit with an empty belly ya know?
Wait, so he's only getting a bottle in the middle of the night? Ok, that's the issue, he's waking up because that's his time to get a bottle. If I were you, I'd give him his milk in a bottle and not in a sippy during the day. Tegan gets 2-3 bottles during the day because she won't drink her milk from a sippy. Since she's not a great eater and she is in the lower percentile, I feel it's more important that she get her milk, then that she drinks it from a sippy.
She will drink juice/water from a sippy, but not milk.
Does he get a bottle before bed?
DS is a huge eater. Always has been. We used to give him a bedtime snack with his bottle. Gradually we dropped the snack and then eventually the bedtime bottle and he STTN without a night feeding. Prior to the snack, he would get a bedtime bottle but then wake up hungry at 4am.
His snacks were some cereal, a banana, cheese, yogurt....something to add some substance in there.
If you gradually decrease the amount that's in the bottle - by 1/2-1oz each night - then he'll wean gently. Just make sure you're making up for it in the day. Maybe a bottle upon waking and one before bed?
Good luck!
ps - that sounds like plenty of "adult" food!
That's about 4x more than DD eats in a day!
and FYI: raw carrots are a huge choking hazard.