Sad transition from 3rd trimester

ekmOC

I am making the very unhappy transition from 3rd trimester to pregnancy loss.  I delivered our baby girl on 12/31 at 31 weeks after having a sudden loss of fetal movement and learning that she had died.  

As part of our grieving process, I would like to continue participating in forums such as this.  

Can anyone help me by telling me how to convert my profile / account to reflect that I am no longer pregnant?  Even though I changed "my account" to indicate that I am not pregnant, when I log on it continues to refer to me as 31 weeks.  Also, how can I change my signature to include a photo and statement describing our recent loss?

 Thanks so much in advance. 

lavril

I am so so sorry for your loss    One of my posts below has lots of good information on how to change all that.  I know how painful it can be to see that as a reminder.  There are a lot of really supportive ladies on this board, and we welcome you with open arms.  *hugs*

LaurenB15

my heart goes out to you and your family for your loss

erikaja6

I am so sorry for your loss.  My thoughts and prayers are with you. 

mmppmm

I am so so sorry. I just changed my homepage to indicate my recent loss- I had to change the due date to ? ? 2006 and then log off and log back in for it to work. I hope that works for you. 

Lorange-8

I'm so sorry for your loss. There are great ladies on this board. My heart goes out to you and your family! Sending you lots of hugs!

fireflies0306

i am so sorry--i think you and i were in the same forums (for 1st and 2nd trimester, and the month boards)...but you will find many supportive ladies here, and an openess to listen.  

Joining this board is a great way to help you through the grieving process.  

you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers--again, i'm so sorry you have to been here, but it is a wonderfully supportive place to be! 

lauren.cus

I'm so incredibly sorry for your loss. There are some really great ladies here that have been an amazing support system for me. I hope the same for you. This is such an unfair and difficult time, but with baby steps we'll all get through this together.

rosemary&thyme

Reading your post just gave me the chills. I am so, so sorry that you have to deal with this loss. I hope that you are able to find some help here in this healing process.

cmumama

So very sorry for your loss.  You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

yeliza h

I can't even begin to day how sorry I am. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

WifeyWynn0626

I'm so sorry you have to go through this. I hope this board can offer you some support, it helped me tremendously. I've also found that starting a blog can help you work through all your emotions and thoughts that you just can't describe out loud. Lots of T&P's headed your way during your difficult time.

julesjb

I am so very sorry for your loss....I hope we can all help you through this very hard time

butterflynola

I'm so truly sorry for your loss.  I hope that you can find some comfort and support here.  Huge ((hugs)) to you and your family.

ekmOC

Thank you all for your expressions of support.  I will be here and hope to someday offer support to others.  

yeliza h

I know that this is a difficult time for you and nothing that I can say will make you feel better. All I can say is how I am making it through the day. Allow yourself to grieve, allow yourself to cry, allow yourself to scream, allow yourself to be jealous of pregnant woman and people with newborns. Allow yourself to do whatever you have to do. And don't let anyone tell you differently.

Right now you may feel numb and think it is all a dream. And may not be able to express how you feel, but whenever you are ready we are all here ready to listen (or read).

 

mrscdobs

Oh god, I am so, so sorry to hear this.  So many thoughts and prayers with you during this difficult time.  I hope you can find peace and draw on the support from this board.

LDW80

I can't begin to tell you how sorry I am for your loss.  It was hard enough for me losing our baby at 13wks, I can't imagine the pain you must feel losing your baby at 31wks (although losing a baby at anytime is awful).  I pray for you during this difficult time and when and if you plan on trying again that it will be your take home baby (even though Angeline will never be replaced).  Please take care of yourself.  I have found this board to be the most helpful place to go to because I feel no one else around me understands my emotions and feelings of loss.  Lots of hugs to you!!!!

pennynjon

I am so so sorry for your loss. I don't even know what else to say. This board is full of supportive ladies.  We are here for you.  You will be in my prayers.  ((hugs))

Manderlin923

I am so so sorry for your loss This board is great and I hope you find support here.

clarks415

I am so very sorry for your loss. The first thing I wanted to do is correct all of the same stuff on here. I went to FAQ on the side and clicked about me icon and deleted the links. Then went to lilypie.com to add a memorial link. We will be here for you as you cope with your loss. you are in my prayers...

futuremrsofficer

I'm so sorry for your loss. We're here to listen.

kthappy76

I am so so sorry for your loss.

Tiffany946

I am so sorry to hear of your loss.  My heart aches for you.

cheesa27

I don't really post, but I read your story I am so sorry for your loss I know how you feel. I lost my daughter at 31 weeks on 12/11/10. If you need anything feel free to message me.

bella213

I am so very sorry for your loss. 

Temp774929562501329

i'm so sorry for your loss. i lost my ella in the 3rd tri (39wks) in september. feel free to PM if you want to chat.  ::hugs::